VERY NEW

Please take your time and introduce yourself to us - why Domestic Discipline, are you married, how your relationship progressed...
Lacie0801
Posts: 8
Joined: Wed Jan 02, 2019 4:00 pm

VERY NEW

Post by Lacie0801 » Wed Jan 02, 2019 4:13 pm

I am very new to being TiH and my husband is a new HoH, we have been married 27 years and just started this weekend. Any advice for us? I am hard headed, and stubborn but I am not really into pain. This was started to help us both in the end but as of right now we are new and would love help.

User avatar
sweetie
Posts: 900
Joined: Fri May 18, 2018 6:53 am
Location: United Kingdom

Re: VERY NEW

Post by sweetie » Wed Jan 02, 2019 4:22 pm

Lacie0801 wrote:
Wed Jan 02, 2019 4:13 pm
I am very new to being TiH and my husband is a new HoH, we have been married 27 years and just started this weekend. Any advice for us? I am hard headed, and stubborn but I am not really into pain. This was started to help us both in the end but as of right now we are new and would love help.
Welcome Lacie0801. You’re about to start on a wonderful journey. This site is full of great advice so I’d suggest you browse the site and then ask any questions you want, there’s plenty of people on here who will be able to answer questions and provide advice from beginners like yourself to those who’ve been practicing DD for years.

A good place to start might be Clint and Chelsea’s excellent blog posts: viewforum.php?f=23

Good luck 🍀
sweetie x
Please inform MrsSweetie, my HoH, if I'm in any way impolite, disrespectful, inapproptiate, or cause any offence

Lauren
Posts: 555
Joined: Sat Feb 03, 2018 6:45 pm
Location: Wisconsin

Re: VERY NEW

Post by Lauren » Wed Jan 02, 2019 4:57 pm

Welcome Lacie!

If you're not into pain, that's a good deterrent to behave!! :lol:

Lacie0801
Posts: 8
Joined: Wed Jan 02, 2019 4:00 pm

Re: VERY NEW

Post by Lacie0801 » Wed Jan 02, 2019 6:03 pm

I enjoy slight (play) pain lol but not spankings. I am waiting on my first real one from HoH. I know I need structure and rules... a deadline per say.

User avatar
Miras
Posts: 137
Joined: Thu May 03, 2018 6:26 am
Location: Prague, Czech Republic

Re: VERY NEW

Post by Miras » Thu Jan 03, 2019 2:46 am

Welcome! I hope this will work for you!
Occasionally friendly Spencerist guy
Faktor IV of MdI
Unofficial member of The Wicked Tribe

Lacie0801
Posts: 8
Joined: Wed Jan 02, 2019 4:00 pm

Re: VERY NEW

Post by Lacie0801 » Thu Jan 03, 2019 10:49 am

Miras, me too!! I need structure. After 25+ years of marriage i am just learning that!

User avatar
Miras
Posts: 137
Joined: Thu May 03, 2018 6:26 am
Location: Prague, Czech Republic

Re: VERY NEW

Post by Miras » Thu Jan 03, 2019 11:21 am

Lacie0801 wrote:
Thu Jan 03, 2019 10:49 am
Miras, me too!! I need structure. After 25+ years of marriage i am just learning that!
Well I´m seeing more and more that marriage is quite a sport and some people need a coaching sometimes.
Occasionally friendly Spencerist guy
Faktor IV of MdI
Unofficial member of The Wicked Tribe

Lacie0801
Posts: 8
Joined: Wed Jan 02, 2019 4:00 pm

Re: VERY NEW

Post by Lacie0801 » Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:16 pm

Miras wrote:
Thu Jan 03, 2019 11:21 am
Lacie0801 wrote:
Thu Jan 03, 2019 10:49 am
Miras, me too!! I need structure. After 25+ years of marriage i am just learning that!
Well I´m seeing more and more that marriage is quite a sport and some people need a coaching sometimes.
I am hoping that this along with communication will allow us to grow. We have been thru hell and stayed with each other. R (HoH) is very caring so I brought up DD because I am lost and overwhelmed. I know in the long run this is a huge step forward but getting thru the growing pains of this is a big step.

the couple
Posts: 8
Joined: Tue Jul 17, 2018 6:33 pm

Re: VERY NEW

Post by the couple » Thu Jan 03, 2019 6:29 pm

Welcome Lacie! I hope this works for you. I know that the good folks in this forum strongly believe in Domestic Discipline, and have great experiences and thoughts to share.

Astolaine
Posts: 8
Joined: Tue Nov 27, 2018 8:16 pm

Re: VERY NEW

Post by Astolaine » Thu Jan 03, 2019 7:20 pm

Welcome xxx I hope it's going well so far? I started on this journey "properly" quite recently too, although we've been heading toward this for quite some time.

I am enjoying having more structure in my life, I feel stronger somehow?! I've had a few "infringements" as we've decided to call them. Punishments have included 10 swats on the backside with a rather thin but very mean cane type implement and also two pages of lines (which I hated more)! Both made me think about my actions though and I somehow feel more settled with my life. I'm not sure how best to explain and that's partly why I've come here to DD forum i guess, to see how others feel & compare notes!!

Hugs, Astolaine xxx

Post Reply