Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

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Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Post by nicolelinn45 » Mon Apr 01, 2019 4:28 pm

My husbands best friend knows and it is no big deal. No one else knows. I wish we could be more open and just live our DD lives in public. Too many feminatzi's (feminists) out there! You never know what they may do to complicate your life thinking that they know what is best. I guess that is why we have sites like this.

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Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Post by MikeG » Mon Apr 01, 2019 4:58 pm

My wifes best friends knows and also her mom. No big deal luckily, but we also wish we could be more open about it. As others said, too many feminists out there

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Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Post by Miras » Tue Apr 02, 2019 12:01 am

MikeG wrote:
Mon Apr 01, 2019 4:58 pm
My wifes best friends knows and also her mom. No big deal luckily, but we also wish we could be more open about it. As others said, too many feminists out there
Well...
1) We must declare that most of thrashing husbands have absolutely nothing against thrashed husbands.

2) We must use this school of feminism as our founding stone - http://disciplinedfeminist.blogspot.com/

Among other things... I honostly long for harmony and equal rights and as I said myself, I have slight ideological/psychological problems with DD, but this can be eventually overcame for the entire society, if it proves to be objective problem solver and abusers will be still prosecuted.
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Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Post by NateG » Tue Apr 02, 2019 11:51 am

nicolelinn45 wrote:
Mon Apr 01, 2019 4:28 pm
My husbands best friend knows and it is no big deal. No one else knows. I wish we could be more open and just live our DD lives in public. Too many feminatzi's (feminists) out there! You never know what they may do to complicate your life thinking that they know what is best. I guess that is why we have sites like this.

Nic
I completely agree. We should be able to be more open with it.

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Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Post by Miras » Tue Apr 02, 2019 12:42 pm

NateG wrote:
Tue Apr 02, 2019 11:51 am
nicolelinn45 wrote:
Mon Apr 01, 2019 4:28 pm
My husbands best friend knows and it is no big deal. No one else knows. I wish we could be more open and just live our DD lives in public. Too many feminatzi's (feminists) out there! You never know what they may do to complicate your life thinking that they know what is best. I guess that is why we have sites like this.

Nic
I completely agree. We should be able to be more open with it.
In my other post I´ve called the opening process "Coming out of woodshed". Sometimes I think it will be the first giant society-wide revolution of the 21st century.
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Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Post by Evena » Tue Apr 02, 2019 1:02 pm

I wish I could, but I got a public job, which would be economic sucide. And i could count on a trip to the womens shelter, regardless of my own whishes. So no public coming out for us.

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Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Post by NateG » Tue Apr 02, 2019 1:24 pm

yep....sad...but that is probably true.

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Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Post by Miras » Wed Apr 03, 2019 1:49 am

This would be complicated for a lot of people, but what we need is presentation by internet vloggers, preferably by submissive partners. The only one I registered is Yahshell (who might have done 2 posts on this very forum - memberlist.php?mode=viewprofile&u=343) from the YouTube channel about "Black Domestic Discipline" . I consider it a little strange, but I guess African Americans like to stick to their community.
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Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Post by Miras » Sun Apr 07, 2019 3:23 pm

Another update from my family: Dad told my aunt (his sister). She´s worried about me.
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Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Post by my Wife knows best » Wed Aug 07, 2019 1:20 am

Yes.
My wife, being the decision maker in our marriage, decides who does and doesn't know the details of our marital dynamic. For the first couple of years of our marriage, it was only her family (my in laws) who she told, as well as a couple of her closest friends.
As of about 9 months ago, she informed my family members aswell as our own children, including her daughter from her first marriage.
While really rather embarrassing to begin with, most are very understanding once the reasons for it are explained. From my wife's point of view, the main reason for her telling my mother is to give me additional motivation to keep my behaviour in check, as my wife is very well aware how embarrassed and ashamed I can get when she is telling other people, family in particular, about my misbehaving and the discipline she administers to me. Family dinners where this becomes a topic of conversation can be particularly humiliating, which is a huge motivation for me to abide by my wife's rules.
The rules of my marriage dictate that all of my internet, telephone and social activity is very strictly monitored by my Wife/ HOH. Please keep this in mind when messaging me, as I will be severely punished for any perceived bad behaviour. Thanks

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