Live in friend

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Goldilocks
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Live in friend

Post by Goldilocks » Thu Jun 13, 2019 2:11 pm

I kind of touched base on this in my journal but I thought it belongs here too:

So I got a hell of a spanking Sunday. Sunday evening I popped a major attitude and acted like a bratty toddler infront of PapaBear and my Best friend who is now officially living with us.
That night I got a bedtime spanking and he informed me that my outburst is why my bestie went to bed early. I cried because I felt so bad. Of course when the spanking was over and all was forgiven, I was still anxious about seeing my bestie in the morning.

Well that next evening, we went out to the store together. I was gingerly getting in her car and kind of winced a little bit. She just gave me this side ways glance and had a smirk on her face.
She said, "So...did you get in trouble last night?"
I think I turned 5 shades of red and said, "yeah, I did."
She chuckled a little and said, "yeah. I bet you did."
It was the most embarrassing shortest conversation I ever had.
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Re: Live in friend

Post by darrone » Mon Jun 17, 2019 8:27 am

The words "smirk" and "chuckle" suggest your best friend enjoyed the thought that you got punished. Would you have welcomed a more supportive reaction?

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Re: Live in friend

Post by femalefirefighter » Mon Jun 17, 2019 2:39 pm

Sounds to me she enjoyed it way too much and isn’t supportive at all!! If she were my friend and acted like that I’d be extremely upset and would be reevaluating our friendship!! I’d be concerned that she would be instigating things or setting me up for punishments!!

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Re: Live in friend

Post by NateG » Mon Jun 17, 2019 3:08 pm

I would be sure she wasn't instigating things, but it sounds like she wasn't to me. And if part of the reason you were spanked was the remarks you made or the way you were acting up around her, then I don't blame her for giving a little chuckle of satisfaction. It is embarrassing, yes, but I think you deserved it. Right?

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Re: Live in friend

Post by Goldilocks » Tue Jun 18, 2019 1:20 am

NateG wrote:
Mon Jun 17, 2019 3:08 pm
I would be sure she wasn't instigating things, but it sounds like she wasn't to me. And if part of the reason you were spanked was the remarks you made or the way you were acting up around her, then I don't blame her for giving a little chuckle of satisfaction. It is embarrassing, yes, but I think you deserved it. Right?

Nate
Yes. I deserved it. Trust me.
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Re: Live in friend

Post by Goldilocks » Tue Jun 18, 2019 3:35 am

femalefirefighter wrote:
Mon Jun 17, 2019 2:39 pm
Sounds to me she enjoyed it way too much and isn’t supportive at all!! If she were my friend and acted like that I’d be extremely upset and would be reevaluating our friendship!! I’d be concerned that she would be instigating things or setting me up for punishments!!

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She does Not instigate things. She is not vindictive. Nor does she find pleasure in my pain.

She loves me. She is Very Very protective of me. This lifestyle doesn't make her fully comfortable. Im sure she still has somewhat of an internal struggle with not associating spanking me, with harming me. I think that would be the case with a lot of non DD people.

There are times when my husband upsets her and She walks out of the room because she thinks he is being unfair. Especially when he enforces certain rules she doesn't agree with. Or when he is a little more strern and firm with his words than she feels I deserve.

Before she moved in. I could tell it bothered her when she found out I was spanked. But once I told her Why I was in trouble, she would talk about it with me for a few minutes and we would move on to something else.

But she lives with us now, and That day, she saw first hand my bad behavior. So yeah. She was embarrassed about what happened and so was i. She knows me and knows I use humour to deal with almost everything. So she did Exactly what I needed her to do, help me find the humour in myself. I may have turned 5 shades of red, but I still cracked a smile, and held back a giggle or 2. My reaction reassured her I was ok. Then she could be ok.

she is the most strong willed and independent woman I know. So she struggles with the subservient part of my.personality. But she also knows that is a part of what makes me, me, and she accepts all of me.

And she Respects me, my husband, my marriage, and would never do anything to cause any kind of rift or damage to my marriage or our friendship.
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Re: Live in friend

Post by Goldilocks » Tue Jun 18, 2019 4:00 am

darrone wrote:
Mon Jun 17, 2019 8:27 am
The words "smirk" and "chuckle" suggest your best friend enjoyed the thought that you got punished. Would you have welcomed a more supportive reaction?
She is Very supportive of me. She normally is concerned when she Knows I've been spanked. She tries to be respectful of my DD marriage.
This time, she witnessed my childish behavior first hand. She tried to handle it the best way she could.

She is a person who tried to make light of something she isn't fully comfortable with, and still learning to be accepting of it. I dont blame her. I use humour to deal with almost everything. And she knows this. She was doing exactly what I needed her to do. Helping me laugh at myself and find humour in something to make us Both feel better.
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Re: Live in friend

Post by Goldilocks » Tue Jun 18, 2019 4:30 am

Goldilocks wrote:
Tue Jun 18, 2019 1:20 am
NateG wrote:
Mon Jun 17, 2019 3:08 pm
I would be sure she wasn't instigating things, but it sounds like she wasn't to me. And if part of the reason you were spanked was the remarks you made or the way you were acting up around her, then I don't blame her for giving a little chuckle of satisfaction. It is embarrassing, yes, but I think you deserved it. Right?

Nate
Yes. I absolutely deserved it. I don't want to know how bad things would have gotten if we weren't in a DD marriage. I could have REALLY made a fool of myself. I think my friend handled things pretty well all in all.
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Re: Live in friend

Post by Goldilocks » Tue Jun 18, 2019 4:58 am

This is the same friend that I wrote about in another story on here in this group.
So she has seen me get a playful spanking over clothes and we all found humor in that.

She has known about our DD marriage from the beginning. And she never felt completely comfortable with it, but respects me, my marriage and my husband and whatever choices we make.
The best part for me is, she does see where it's beneficial to.me. And she now knows first hand, Why DD is necessary part of my life.
She will be living here until Christmas. So I'm sure this will not be the only time she witnesses me earning spanking. And she may eventually accidentally over hear me getting one.

I Do know my husband and I have talked about this Many times before she moved in and we discussed it with her. We set boundaries. He won't punishment spank me in front of her, but he will reprimand me, warning swat me, and treat me no differently than if she wasn't here. She agreed to these terms. Told us to basically don't change for her sake.

Now she sees the reality of it, and he wasn't kidding around. And we are All adjusting.
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Re: Live in friend

Post by Beauty » Tue Jun 18, 2019 7:00 am

She sounds like an amazing friend. It can’t be easy when she doesn’t live DD but she doesn’t try to change y’all. It’s so nice of y’all to let her live with you too!

Goldilocks wrote:
Tue Jun 18, 2019 4:58 am
This is the same friend that I wrote about in another story on here in this group.
So she has seen me get a playful spanking over clothes and we all found humor in that.

She has known about our DD marriage from the beginning. And she never felt completely comfortable with it, but respects me, my marriage and my husband and whatever choices we make.
The best part for me is, she does see where it's beneficial to.me. And she now knows first hand, Why DD is necessary part of my life.
She will be living here until Christmas. So I'm sure this will not be the only time she witnesses me earning spanking. And she may eventually accidentally over hear me getting one.

I Do know my husband and I have talked about this Many times before she moved in and we discussed it with her. We set boundaries. He won't punishment spank me in front of her, but he will reprimand me, warning swat me, and treat me no differently than if she wasn't here. She agreed to these terms. Told us to basically don't change for her sake.

Now she sees the reality of it, and he wasn't kidding around. And we are All adjusting.
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