New discipline idea?

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Smoothy20
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New discipline idea?

Post by Smoothy20 » Thu Jan 16, 2020 2:55 pm

Im sure this is posted, but couldn't find a current one.
Any ideas for effective discipline?
Currently my wife is spanked, given corner time, or loses tv privileges, but I'm looking for other alternatives. Thanks

Lauren
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Re: New discipline idea?

Post by Lauren » Thu Jan 16, 2020 3:03 pm

Line writing, mouth soaping, bedtime, lose of internet privileges, grounding, Icy Hot. These are just a few.

I will try to find a thread discussing this for you.

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Re: New discipline idea?

Post by Smoothy20 » Thu Jan 16, 2020 3:05 pm

A few ppl have mentioned a bedtime. How's that enforceable with kids and chores to take care of? If our kids go to sleep at 730, give her an 8pm bedtime? No books or phone in bed obv?
Thanks

Lauren
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Re: New discipline idea?

Post by Lauren » Thu Jan 16, 2020 3:12 pm

Here is a few links. There is also so many posts on individual punishments.

https://forum.domestic-discipline.net/v ... f=18&t=532

https://forum.domestic-discipline.net/v ... f=18&t=992

You are correct on how the bedtime works.

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Re: New discipline idea?

Post by Smoothy20 » Thu Jan 16, 2020 3:41 pm

Have you been given bedtime in past? If yes, does your HoH also go to sleep then? I assume not?

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Phil04
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Re: New discipline idea?

Post by Phil04 » Thu Jan 16, 2020 3:50 pm

Smoothy,
I know the question was not aimed at me, but hope you (and Lauren) don't mind if I add my perspective. As an HOH, I have given My_Love a bed time. This is usually a punishment for her staying up to late the night before, or just because she is tired, and I think she could benefit from extra sleep. I will sometimes go to bed with her, but do not feel like I am required to. It all depends on how tired I am, and what I need to do.

To your earlier question, our kids usually go to bed fairly early (by 8:00). I will usually either set her bedtime for right after they are down, or for when they go upstairs, and then will put them to bed myself.

Phil

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Re: New discipline idea?

Post by Smoothy20 » Thu Jan 16, 2020 3:51 pm

Thanks

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Re: New discipline idea?

Post by Lauren » Thu Jan 16, 2020 4:00 pm

I have a bedtime as a rule. Not as a punishment. It's either 11 or 11:30. I don't even remember anymore! I try going to bed around 10 or 10:30. Whenever my 10 month old will finally go to sleep. The rule is laxed if any of my kids are still up. My husband goes to bed with our middle daughter around 8:30/9.

Not going to lie, if my husband threatened to "punish" me with an earlier bedtime for a night or even better, a week, I would totally be tempted to push the envelope. "You're going to take care of the kids and put them to bed so that I can go to bed by myself? Without anyone attached to me? You mean I get undisturbed sleep? Punish me please!!!!!"

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Re: New discipline idea?

Post by Smoothy20 » Thu Jan 16, 2020 4:01 pm

Lol!!!

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Re: New discipline idea?

Post by Miras » Thu Jan 16, 2020 4:05 pm

Lauren wrote:
Thu Jan 16, 2020 4:00 pm
I have a bedtime as a rule. Not as a punishment. It's either 11 or 11:30. I don't even remember anymore! I try going to bed around 10 or 10:30. Whenever my 10 month old will finally go to sleep. The rule is laxed if any of my kids are still up. My husband goes to bed with our middle daughter around 8:30/9.

Not going to lie, if my husband threatened to "punish" me with an earlier bedtime for a night or even better, a week, I would totally be tempted to push the envelope. "You're going to take care of the kids and put them to bed so that I can go to bed by myself? Without anyone attached to me? You mean I get undisturbed sleep? Punish me please!!!!!"
You would have to make excuse to lie to your daughters they are punished with even earlier bedtime. But i hope that is not your style...
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