If being late to church became a problem for us, I can't imagine a preventative spanking. I could picture Phil waking me earlier, or asking me to set out my clothes, breakfast things, etc. the night before. Our situation is different, though, since our family leaves together in the morning. If the lateness was due to social media perusal or some other distraction, yes I'd likely be punished for that, probably that evening.
Where we get close to preventative spanking is probably stress relief sessions. Family gatherings, especially when we host them at our home, are very stressful for me. Phil is always very encouraging and kind at those times, and reminds me that I'm not in trouble, but this will help me enjoy the time and relax, etc. I don't have a sore bottom the next day, but in these situations don't usually need it.
-ML

Led in love by Phil04, and learning to submit by the Grace of God. Naturally submissive, but not perfectly so, I am praying for a pure heart and virtuous character.
