Preventative spankings

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Becky
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Preventative spankings

Post by Becky » Tue Oct 30, 2018 3:43 pm

In the last three months I have twice turned up late to Church meetings due to my work and socialising. On each occasion I have been deservedly punished for my rude and disrespectful behaviour. I am now subject to a spanking every day when there is a meeting but before it. This is a hard spanking with corner time before and after so that I can consider why I need to be spanked and how I must behave. Our Church meetings are fairly regular so I am receiving this every couple of weeks and my HoH says it wiil continue until I have demonstrated a suitable period of exemplary behaviour.

I know I deserve the punishment and it is working in ensuring I behave appropriately and attend meetings on time. This prevents me wasting the time of other members of our community.

Is anyone else subject to similar punishment and if so how long have you typically had to serve?

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sweetie
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Re: Preventative spankings

Post by sweetie » Tue Oct 30, 2018 8:00 pm

Hi Becky,

This isn’t something my wife and HoH, MrsSweetie, does on a regular basis but there is one regular occurrence that springs to mind, plus something that was a bit more of a one-off.

I normally get a preventative spanking when we’re going away with friends either for a weekend or longer. I have a tendency to say things I wouldn’t normally say when I’ve had a few beers, particularly if egged on by some of our male friends, to say something disrespectful or inappropriate. The preventative spanking is to remind me to be on my best behaviour.

The one-off which was a series of punishments over a couple of weeks ahead of this year’s football (soccer) World Cup was to remind me that I wasn’t going to be alllowed to hog the TV remote for six weeks so I could watch every match as I’d done in the past and also to remind me that I wasn’t to sulk or strop or argue if I couldn’t watch a match because we had other plans or MrsSweetie wanted to watch something else.
sweetie x
Please inform MrsSweetie, my HoH, if I'm in any way impolite, disrespectful, inapproptiate, or cause any offence

Lauren
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Re: Preventative spankings

Post by Lauren » Tue Oct 30, 2018 8:49 pm

You're going to laugh at this: Starting in June, whenever I am going to be in the same place as Brandon's sister, Brandon has started spanking me beforehand. So family gatherings basically.

She is the biggest witch I have ever met. She is God awful to me. She gets under my skin and I am tired of it. It got so bad that I started having panic attacks and dreaded going to family gathering. So instead of me exploding at her, I have asked Brandon to start spanking me beforehand to relieve the anxiety and clear my mind of being mean back to her. We also have in place if we are around her and the panic attacks come on Brandon will pull me into a different room and calm me down or spank me again if need be.

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Re: Preventative spankings

Post by Ezz » Wed Oct 31, 2018 7:18 am

I've had similar spankings in the past and know I will have more in the future. Family gatherings, meals out, when we're meeting friends or whatever. Not every time, but because of a few slips on previous occasions, I will get spanked just before we set off with a promise of another, much harder spanking when we get home if I say or do something wrong.

I have come to expect this especially when we are staying over at someone else's house overnight.
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Re: Preventative spankings

Post by D+R » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:24 pm

I REALLY struggle with my mother-in-law and at times father-in-law. They are very passive aggressive to me but both also treat “D” badly (a lot of playing on his guilt and manipulation) I get either very protective and snap/rude or go straight into distant mode (I posted about that mind frame before). We have talked about maybe doing preventive spankings but now I think maybe it would be a good thing. Does anyone feel like it really helps prevent the behaviors?

Lauren,
I really like the idea of being pulled aside to regroup or spanked again. I get to panic attack status with them too

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Re: Preventative spankings

Post by SurrealSD » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:30 pm

I have to admit I'm still not clear on why the TIH should be punished if the HOH's family members are jerks.


What ever happened to a husband standing up for his wife?
But first, have you tried sitting down with your partner and telling them honestly how you feel?

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Re: Preventative spankings

Post by D+R » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:54 pm

SurrealSD wrote:
Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:30 pm
I have to admit I'm still not clear on why the TIH should be punished if the HOH's family members are jerks.


What ever happened to a husband standing up for his wife?
For the most part he does intervene and at times has snapped at them pretty hard in my defense. It is hard for him too when they are great at manipulation 🙄. I didn’t explain my reaction to it very well. I do expect to be defended and protected regardless of blood. Its more of how it makes me feel when we have to see them. I don’t like who I become so I was wondering if the pre warning would stop the bad behaviors I do in reaction to them. I would like to become “the better person” vs aniexty rude side

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Re: Preventative spankings

Post by SurrealSD » Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:14 pm

Yeah, I'm from Texas. I once asked a bitchy sister in law if she'd like to step outside and fight me. Her attitude improved remarkably.
But first, have you tried sitting down with your partner and telling them honestly how you feel?

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Re: Preventative spankings

Post by D+R » Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:34 pm

SurrealSD wrote:
Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:14 pm
Yeah, I'm from Texas. I once asked a bitchy sister in law if she'd like to step outside and fight me. Her attitude improved remarkably.
🤣🤣🤣awesome! I’m not sure I could do that with a no joke 90lb mother in law 😩

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Re: Preventative spankings

Post by TheGoodWifeLife » Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:57 pm

SurrealSD wrote:
Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:14 pm
Yeah, I'm from Texas. I once asked a bitchy sister in law if she'd like to step outside and fight me. Her attitude improved remarkably.
:lol: It takes a LOT to get me to that point, but the few times I have were because of hateful and rude women. Every time I finally had it and was all set to whoop somebody, the other girl would step down! I’m not very big, but I can be scary if I need to be lol!
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