For all members!!

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CassLynn
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Re: For all members!!

Post by CassLynn » Sat May 25, 2019 10:25 pm

Not feeling like reading rules. No one engages with me here any more. I don’t feel welcome.

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sweetie
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Re: For all members!!

Post by sweetie » Wed May 29, 2019 3:14 pm

CassLynn wrote:
Sat May 25, 2019 10:25 pm
Not feeling like reading rules. No one engages with me here any more. I don’t feel welcome.
I can see where you’re coming from CassLynn as I don’t feel as engaged on here any more.

I don’t know if this is just me, or not, but whilst we definitely needed rules because things were getting out of hand, and the rules themselves are very thorough, I’m also very wary of breaking the rules now as they read as zero tolerance as in break one rule once and you’re banned. Consequently my comments have become very bland on here for fear of falling foul of a rule (I know from experience how easy it is to be disrespectful or offend someone even when I had no intention of doing so) and I don’t post to my Journal like I used to.

I am trying to PM some people more but appreciate that’s time consuming on both sides and not as easy to maintain.
sweetie x
Please inform MrsSweetie, my HoH, if I'm in any way impolite, disrespectful, inapproptiate, or cause any offence

Kerry
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Location: Midwest US submissive female with male HoH partner

Re: For all members!!

Post by Kerry » Wed May 29, 2019 10:04 pm

CassLynn and Sweetie, now I feel like I let both of you down! We must have a reunion thread:)
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femalefirefighter
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Re: For all members!!

Post by femalefirefighter » Wed May 29, 2019 10:14 pm

sweetie wrote:
Wed May 29, 2019 3:14 pm
CassLynn wrote:
Sat May 25, 2019 10:25 pm
Not feeling like reading rules. No one engages with me here any more. I don’t feel welcome.
I can see where you’re coming from CassLynn as I don’t feel as engaged on here any more.

I don’t know if this is just me, or not, but whilst we definitely needed rules because things were getting out of hand, and the rules themselves are very thorough, I’m also very wary of breaking the rules now as they read as zero tolerance as in break one rule once and you’re banned. Consequently my comments have become very bland on here for fear of falling foul of a rule (I know from experience how easy it is to be disrespectful or offend someone even when I had no intention of doing so) and I don’t post to my Journal like I used to.

I am trying to PM some people more but appreciate that’s time consuming on both sides and not as easy to maintain.
Sweetie, I hardly ever post anything because it’s gotten so PC on here and everyone gets their feelings hurt so easily!! I pm mostly now because if you give your actual thoughts and opinions or tell how things actually are in your marriage, some can’t handle it. Goes back to if you want everyone to agree with you and have no thoughts about it, then don’t post it!! If you can’t be yourself and have to tap dance to make sure you don’t hurts someone’s feelings then why post replies? Once in a blue moon I may post a reply but otherwise I just read and move on 😂😂

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Kerry
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Re: For all members!!

Post by Kerry » Wed May 29, 2019 10:15 pm

Hi to you too FFF:)
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CassLynn
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Re: For all members!!

Post by CassLynn » Wed May 29, 2019 11:54 pm

I read the rules. Sweetie I think your nervousness is misplaced. You are very polite and thoughtful always. I don’t think any of your posts or comments would ever get you in trouble. All anyone has to do to be in compliance is not be a jerk. Or a pervert. I’m pretty sure.

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sweetie
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Re: For all members!!

Post by sweetie » Thu May 30, 2019 3:00 am

CassLynn wrote:
Wed May 29, 2019 11:54 pm
I read the rules. Sweetie I think your nervousness is misplaced. You are very polite and thoughtful always. I don’t think any of your posts or comments would ever get you in trouble. All anyone has to do to be in compliance is not be a jerk. Or a pervert. I’m pretty sure.
Thanks, CassLynn, but I’ve twice received punishment for comments I made on PMs here which were disrespectful when I hadn’t intended them to be.
sweetie x
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KrystalA
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Re: For all members!!

Post by KrystalA » Thu May 30, 2019 3:34 am

CassLynn wrote:
Wed May 29, 2019 11:54 pm
I read the rules. Sweetie I think your nervousness is misplaced. You are very polite and thoughtful always. I don’t think any of your posts or comments would ever get you in trouble. All anyone has to do to be in compliance is not be a jerk. Or a pervert. I’m pretty sure.
I am so sorry you all feel this way. Our intention of the rules were to get this site back to being healthy. Too many adults we're acting as children and it needed to end.
However, Casslynn just summed up the rules in her comment!! :) She did it beautifully. If any of you want to, it would be a great help, please PM what you want to see on this forum. Be specific so I can understand that you're trying to say.


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Jennyp
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Re: For all members!!

Post by Jennyp » Tue Jun 04, 2019 9:13 pm

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Re: For all members!!

Post by fredsimms » Tue Jun 04, 2019 9:36 pm

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