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Kate
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Joined: Thu Jun 22, 2017 4:42 pm

Hi, everyone!

Post by Kate » Sat Jul 01, 2017 3:36 pm

My name is Kate.

I have been married to my wonderful HOH for 8 years. It is the second marriage for each of us. I suggested DD as a paradigm for us a few weeks ago when I realized that I had slowly taken over the leadership role in our marriage. He has let me do it. This arrangement contributed much to the end of each of our first marriages, so when I recognized it, I decided that enough was enough.

When we first married, I knew that this was a man I respected and could trust to make good decisions. Why did I not stay submissive? Probably because I am very headstrong. It's one of the things that he likes about me. That said, I know life is better when I support him and not lead. So I am consciously handing over the controls, so to speak, and choosing daily to be second in command.

I think he is just "playing along" at the moment, but we do have rules and a contract, and he is figuring out that I like it when he gets out the paddle and takes charge.

The online community is helpful, and I am glad I found you!

ElizaK
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Joined: Wed May 24, 2017 3:11 pm
Location: Fairfax, Virginia

Re: Hi, everyone!

Post by ElizaK » Wed Jul 05, 2017 10:43 am

Welcome! I hope you do get a lot out of this network.
Eliza

Kate
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Re: Hi, everyone!

Post by Kate » Wed Jul 05, 2017 11:38 pm

Thank you! :-)

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Clint
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Re: Hi, everyone!

Post by Clint » Wed Jul 12, 2017 1:12 pm

Kate wrote:
Sat Jul 01, 2017 3:36 pm
My name is Kate.

I have been married to my wonderful HOH for 8 years. It is the second marriage for each of us. I suggested DD as a paradigm for us a few weeks ago when I realized that I had slowly taken over the leadership role in our marriage. He has let me do it. This arrangement contributed much to the end of each of our first marriages, so when I recognized it, I decided that enough was enough.

When we first married, I knew that this was a man I respected and could trust to make good decisions. Why did I not stay submissive? Probably because I am very headstrong. It's one of the things that he likes about me. That said, I know life is better when I support him and not lead. So I am consciously handing over the controls, so to speak, and choosing daily to be second in command.

I think he is just "playing along" at the moment, but we do have rules and a contract, and he is figuring out that I like it when he gets out the paddle and takes charge.

The online community is helpful, and I am glad I found you!
Kate, welcome ! I'm glad it worked out with the account.
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