Not sure

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Messire2
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Not sure

Post by Messire2 » Thu Nov 25, 2021 11:48 pm

Fist of all, I'm not sure if I can call our relationship DD.
She is a very nice person but, she have a procrastination problem. So, when it happen, after one or two warnings she find herself jeans and undies down her knees and over my knees for a spanking.
What do you think?
(Sorry for my English)

Jacob HF
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Re: Not sure

Post by Jacob HF » Fri Nov 26, 2021 4:50 am

Welcome.

Just based on what you have said, it sounds like DD to me.

--Jacob

Paddlefan
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Re: Not sure

Post by Paddlefan » Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:51 am

Your English is very good. I think it's DD too.

Messire2
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Re: Not sure

Post by Messire2 » Sat Nov 27, 2021 12:40 am

Jacob HF
Thank you.

Paddlefan
Thank you

We don't have a list of rules. I'm not very strict, I use my hand at 90%. Hairbrush about once a year for speeding or other dangerous stuff.

I thought to be real DD you have to have a list, maintenance spanking etc.

Anyway, I'm glad to have found this forum and I enjoy reading you.

Jacob HF
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Re: Not sure

Post by Jacob HF » Sat Nov 27, 2021 5:02 am

Messire2 wrote:
Sat Nov 27, 2021 12:40 am
I thought to be real DD you have to have a list, maintenance spanking etc.
There is no such thing as "real" DD.

Don't let anyone else define your relationship and don't assume that there is some standard of purity that you must abide by.

Now I, and many others, practice DD within a Christian Biblical framework. That imposes a number of standards that we live by because we are submitted to our Lord. But, those are our standards and don't apply to you unless you want them to.

The important definitional requirements of domestic discipline are:
  1. It isn't purely sexual (otherwise its some form of BDSM)
  2. It is consensual and between adults (otherwise it is abusive)
  3. It involves a domicile or some kind of domestic relationship (otherwise it isn't domestic)
A list of rules and maintenance spankings are tools that some people find helpful. Those or anything else we tell you here is advice or our own experiences but isn't something that you must conform to to be DD.

--Jacob

Messire2
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Re: Not sure

Post by Messire2 » Sat Nov 27, 2021 11:09 am

Jacob HF:

Thank you to clarify. It's consensual and we are happy the way we live it.😊

Monty
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Re: Not sure

Post by Monty » Thu Dec 02, 2021 1:16 am

Everyone is different in how they live the lifestyle due to individual circumstances.
We are newbies. About a year now and it has taken us quite awhile to get into a routine that works for us.
Constant communication and maintenance meetings help us improve.

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