Hi from across the Atlantic!

Please take your time and introduce yourself to us - why Domestic Discipline, are you married, how your relationship progressed...
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Dutch Yannik
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Hi from across the Atlantic!

Post by Dutch Yannik » Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:50 am

Hello everyone,

Great to be here! I'm Yannick, a Dutch guy looking to share experiences and (virtually) meet like-minded people with a DD household. There's pretty few people in my country that seem to have such a set-up, let alone want to share about it, so after some googling here I am!

My wife and I (we met 12 years ago, married four now) are both in our thirties, we have two kids (1 and 4) and live in the middle of the country. We've had quite some struggles in our relationship, mostly smaller annoyances which grew especially once we moved in together. But also some more serious issues that grew into arguments.

During a late-night discussion I found a link to the Spencer Spanking Plan, which clicked with both of us. We each had some experiences with spanking, although more for fun than for discipline. So we knew what we were getting into, but still it was some journey to work out all the kinks.

Our basic rhythm now is to do a weekly evaluation and punishment; she receives hers on Friday evening and I get mine on Tuesdays. We don't have specific written-down rules, it's more a way to channel the frustrations and reflect on the week. But still, it works, we both have made significant improvements in how we communicate, take on the chores and so on.

I'll be lurking for a bit and join in on new conversations. As I'm in a different timezone from most of the people here I might be responding at weird times for you, hope that's ok 8-)

Anyway, if you have any questions just post them below!

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Axel
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Re: Hi from across the Atlantic!

Post by Axel » Mon Jan 04, 2021 10:08 am

Welcome!
Axel - from the same timezone.

Frenchie
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Re: Hi from across the Atlantic!

Post by Frenchie » Mon Jan 04, 2021 10:54 am

Welcome! Nice to hear from someone nearby :)

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Miras
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Location: Prague, Czech Republic

Re: Hi from across the Atlantic!

Post by Miras » Mon Jan 04, 2021 11:43 am

Welcome Yannick!
Occasionally friendly Spencerist guy
Faktor IV of MdI - Maghan
Unofficial member of The Wicked Tribe
Putting DD back into BuDDhism

Lesley
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Re: Hi from across the Atlantic!

Post by Lesley » Mon Jan 04, 2021 12:15 pm

Welcome!!!

VernAKmiss
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Re: Hi from across the Atlantic!

Post by VernAKmiss » Mon Jan 04, 2021 12:47 pm

Hello and welcome to the group!

Firmand
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Location: UK

Re: Hi from across the Atlantic!

Post by Firmand » Mon Jan 04, 2021 4:35 pm

Hi, and welcome!
Forgive my errors...and any and every good thing comes from Him whose loving Almighty hand can guide even me, through His Holy Spirit, and His Son my Saviour Jesus Christ:

"In him was life; and the life was the light of men."(John 1:4)

Paul_PWE
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Re: Hi from across the Atlantic!

Post by Paul_PWE » Mon Jan 04, 2021 6:16 pm

Welcome Yannick

Olivia
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Re: Hi from across the Atlantic!

Post by Olivia » Tue Jan 05, 2021 8:01 am

Welcome!!!

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