Hi from SC!
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Re: Hi from SC!
This is a great letter. Go ahead and send it to him. I hope the outcome will be exactly what you desire.
DesertRose
Re: Hi from SC!
What a very open and honest letter, good luck!
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If you copied and pasted the letter here, I would reread, spell check and redo sentences.
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Raw and beautiful. What a hard letter that must have been to write!
Small suggestion but maybe bring up what possible benefits he can get from this lifestyle too
Small suggestion but maybe bring up what possible benefits he can get from this lifestyle too
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I think your letter was genuine and to the point and I could feel the emotion behind it. I am praying he takes this seriously and is at least willing to try. I can understand his fears completely though. What exactly was it that you bought?? You may even suggest a ‘warm up’ with hand or hair brush to make the paddle strikes not as shocking for you. Having a warm bottom before can definitely make it easier to take, than BAM full strength paddle strike to a cold bottom. Just a suggestion. Also for him it would be easier to gauge your reactions using hand or brush over the knee and help him to judge how hard to swing with the paddle.
Good luck. Keep us updated.
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The letter was not well-received. He’s just not interested. I’m feeling pretty down - I think maybe he’s not really all that interested in me anymore, either.
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Oh Tessa, I am so sorry to hear that. Perhaps he just needs time to process. Don’t mention it for a week or so and then bring it up again to test his thoughts. Good luck.
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I'm sorry that you're going through all of this
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So sorry that it's not working out the way you had hoped.
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Sorry Tessa.
I will pray for your marriage. Keep your head up girl. Maybe he just needs some time.
Learning sweet submission and respect through my Heavenly Father and my HOH Husband.