Introduction

[Paul_PWE]

Hello everyone,
I am Paul but some of you may have heard of me as Sarge. I am 31, one of the directors of the state security office and also an ex military sergeant (for some reason my wife Alice thought it was a good idea to tease me with it when we first met and the nickname stuck).

Alice has asked me to join the forum a few times in the last couple of months to engage on the discussions about Domestic Discipline here but I feel like I am not so much of an internet social media guy, thus said I now believe it will be beneficial for us if I partake in some of the conversations here and also keep an eye on what my wife is posting.

As some of you may know, I came to her with the proposition to enter a DD lifestyle, to reinforce order in our household. I was raised in a very traditional home and I regard the principles of a traditional family in very high value, my father disciplined me and also my mother and our home has never once staged dramas caused by some of the disruptive new ways of living of our times, I have friends who are the same age as me that have already gone through divorces and unruly kids with no structure. I am a firm believer that order and discipline have everything to do with that and with creating safe and peaceful long lasting relationships and respectable families.

Now Alice is the most sweet and strong human being I've ever met in my life, she's one of those people everyone loves and they don't even know why, and oh boy the woman is smart, sometimes a little too much haha, but Alice is also one of the rebel kids, always testing and trying to take over power and overrule whoever meets her path and she also has a very confusing way of running things in her life with absolutely no organization. My quest is to put an end to that side of it and help her enhance her qualities and most importantly bring order to our house, I want to have children and give those children the structure I had growing up. The last couple of months have been the best of our entire marriage, I am so proud of Alice for accepting to try DD and for trusting me, I know how much she's been struggling with all the new habits and I know her from beyond posts and beyond what her mouth says, she is scared to keep going after those two months and I understand, hopefully me joining the forum shows her that I am open to others' opinions and that I want to incentive her to keep going on this journey by my side.

Thank you in advance for accepting and welcoming into this forum,
Paul

PS: Alice I know you'll read this, I love you.

[Miras]

Sir, welcome, Sir! Your privates welcome you and hope you will lhave tremendous time with Alice!

[Pink cheeks]

Welcome

[Frenchie]

Hi welcome, looking forward to reading your perspectives as well!

[Firmand]

Hi Paul! and welcome to the forum that your dear beloved is already such a valued part of and great contributor, some great people here, you will be right at home!

[BillW]

Welcome !

[Emily]

Welcome!

[Kept-in-line]

Welcome! you’re wife seems so cool and strong. I’m Looking forward to getting to know you here as well.

[AWE_1993]

Hi Sarge! Welcome hun, I love you too!

[Paul_PWE]

Thank you all for the warm welcome.

I hope we'll be able to exchange experience and grow from it.