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Hi from the UK

Post by Steve64 » Fri Jul 31, 2020 11:38 am

Hi, everyone. I'm Steve and I have just joined. I am in a very happy and successful DD relationship with my wife. She is very much the HOH in our marriage. We have been married for over 30 years but last year I plucked up the courage to ask her to spank me as it was something I have always been interested in. My wife was fully aware of my interest as she saw what websites I had been looking at but had chosen to ignore them as she was not willing to explore the subject. Well, when I approached her last year she said she would be willing to try. Well, she absolutely loved it and so did I! It did wonders for our sex life. Later on she told me that together with the 'fun' spankings she wanted to introduce punishment spankings if I had done something wrong or angered her. I hesitated at first but I agreed and so our DD relationship started. If i have earned myself a spanking then I am told what time it will happen and to meet her in the kitchen which is where the majority of my spankings are administered. So on time I walk into the kitchen having first removed all my clothes. My wife pulls out a dining chair, sits down and after reading the misdemeanour I put myself across her knee and I am spanked long and hard. Her implements are an ebony hairbrush which burns like the devil and a really nasty long handled bath brush which is for very serious punishments. Both brushes will bring me to tears but that doesn't stop the spanking. I am then made to stand in the corner for 20 minutes to contemplate.

Now, this is where I am rather nervous. My wife has discovered this forum and it was on her instruction that I join. You see I am due a very severe punishment, in fact I have been told she will carry it out in stages over the next 3 days minimum starting this coming Monday morning . We are both at home all week next week. The reason is because i came home drunk a few nights ago which is something I have warned about previously so this is the second time it's happened. I know that 3 of her closest friends are aware of our relationship and how I am spanked but, up until she has not spanked me in front of them but she has threatened to in the past. I assume I am to receive regular spankings over the 3 days but she hasn't said. This is because part of my punishment is to write this and to invite suggestions from other spanking wives how she should deal with me. It should be thoroughly painful and humiliating (her words) She has also acquired a thick leather belt which was used on my thighs a while ago.
So there we have it. My wife is standing over me while I write this and is looking forward to any replies.
Meanwhile thank you for letting me join albeit under unusual circumstances.


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Re: Hi from the UK

Post by Pink cheeks » Fri Jul 31, 2020 3:02 pm

Just my two cents worth.
I think a public spanking would be disrespectful to you and detrimental to your marriage. Yes you broke a rule and have earned a punishment, multiple days of spankings for the same punishment is very harsh, especially if they are proper punishment spankings.

Good luck on this one Steve.

I asked my HOH he said you should be spanked long and hard until you can barely sit. Would never consider bringing in an audience.
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Re: Hi from the UK

Post by Phil04 » Fri Jul 31, 2020 3:44 pm

I agree that DD is a private part of our marriage and not something I would invite somebody to watch. Regarding the punishment, I recommend a fraternity paddle (with holes) and a loopy Jonny. Alternating between the two every 10-15 strokes prevents the rear from going numb during a long spanking session.

I would probably recommend a long single day punishment rather than a multiple day assuming this is the first time you came home drunk after the rule was implemented. If this is a repeat offence, then multiple days is appropriate.

The paddles can be purchased on Amazon. The loopy will either need to be purchased either Etsy or a specialty store or made yourself.


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Post by Lauren » Fri Jul 31, 2020 5:44 pm

What is the reasoning she wants to bring her friends into this? That seems very odd.

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Post by Steve64 » Sat Aug 01, 2020 6:35 am

Hi everyone, Thank you for the response so far. I was hoping to reply to each of your replies separately but I can’t find a way of doing it. I understand your concern over my wife inviting one of one of her friends over to witness a spanking. I think it’s purely to add humiliation. Being naked and spanked in front of her friend would be highly embarrassing for me. I don’t if she intends to go through with it.
Phil04 This is a repeat offence and I was warned that if I did it again the punishment would be so much worse. Hence multiple days. I’ve only myself to blame.
I’m guessing I won’t be sitting down from Monday.

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Re: Hi from the UK

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Post by spankedbywife101 » Sat Aug 28, 2021 9:27 am

I think in this case bringing in a third party will be uneventful. and serve no real deterrent for you. However, if you are to mis behave in any way that would merit a spanking when her friends are over visiting or if you are all out to as function together then there being present for the spanking of they have to endure your misbehaving then that is totally fair and if they don't feel comfortable they can just exit.


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