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Post by Lesley » Sat May 02, 2020 10:13 am

I have only found this group today and just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Lesley and am 26 years old. My husband Richard is 42 years old. We live in the UK.

We have been married for just over a year and because of some small issues in our marriage we recently decided to give DD a try to see if this can help improve these issues in our relationship.

We are very new to DD and we are taking things very slowly. We have discussed rules and punishments and now have a basis for our new DD arrangement.

Until now my behaviour has only warranted loss of privileges and cornertime punishments. I must say that I am very nervous about receiving my first proper punishment spanking and what it will be like (is this normal?).

I am hoping that I can learn from other peoples experiences in this group.


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Post by Olivia » Sat May 02, 2020 10:49 am

I think it's completely normal!

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Post by Emily » Sat May 02, 2020 1:21 pm

Welcome! :)

Feeling nervous about a spanking is perfectly normal.
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Post by Shannon » Sat May 02, 2020 7:56 pm

Glad you found us and welcome! I agree with the others. Your feelings are completely normal.

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Post by Ruby » Sun May 03, 2020 9:01 am

Hi Lesley, and welcome :)
Yes, It's definitely completely normal to feel apprehension about the spanking.
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Post by darrone » Sun May 03, 2020 12:07 pm

Welcome, Lesley, from a HoH member of the forum.

Please be assured that your feelings of apprehension are fully understandable. And remember that your husband may also be anxious about delivering your first punishment spanking.

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Re: Hi Everyone

Post by NateG » Sun May 03, 2020 5:41 pm


Yes, it is normal and like was said before..your husband is probably just as nervous about it.


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Post by Lesley » Mon May 04, 2020 6:51 am

Thanks everyone for your welcome and your advice.

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