Message from the Mediator

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DDwife
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Re: Message from the Mediator

Post by DDwife » Wed Nov 07, 2018 12:13 am

I'll add to that too! Totally a great couple.
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Re: Message from the Mediator

Post by sweetie » Wed Nov 07, 2018 2:36 am

Thank you TheGoodWifeLife, CassLynn and DDwife.
sweetie x
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Re: Message from the Mediator

Post by geeman » Wed Nov 07, 2018 7:39 am

Agreed! This forum is unique in that it doesn't get downright 'porny'. I'm not saying anything is wrong with sex or sexuality but sometimes the true benefits of DD are lost in that stuff. I suspect there are always going to be outliers or visitors that just want to stir things up because they either don't understand the lifestyle or are just mean people. My wife and I talk about articles and postings on this website regularly and it has really helped us dial in our female led relationship. The beauty is everyone is unique and everyone handles their lifestyle differently. Those differences give us perspective. It helps. So thank you...

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Re: Message from the Mediator

Post by TheGoodWifeLife » Wed Nov 07, 2018 8:19 am

geeman wrote:
Wed Nov 07, 2018 7:39 am
Agreed! This forum is unique in that it doesn't get downright 'porny'. I'm not saying anything is wrong with sex or sexuality but sometimes the true benefits of DD are lost in that stuff. I suspect there are always going to be outliers or visitors that just want to stir things up because they either don't understand the lifestyle or are just mean people. My wife and I talk about articles and postings on this website regularly and it has really helped us dial in our female led relationship. The beauty is everyone is unique and everyone handles their lifestyle differently. Those differences give us perspective. It helps. So thank you...
Exactly! Sometimes I learn something I can use in my own relationship because of others experiences. Sometimes, I am confident that the way we handle a situation is better for us than the way others would have. I’ll read things and think “that would NOT work for ME!” and upon further reflection, wind up wondering if that’s actually a good idea after all. Other times I might want to try a suggestion I think could work, but it turns out it’s not the right thing for us. The point is that we are all growing in our relationships! We should hope to encourage and build each other up. I think it’s ok to say you disagree or that you don’t/wouldn’t handle an issue in the same way. It’s most important that it’s said with respect and compassion for the other opinions stated. I don’t mind having different opinions or options shared, I find it helpful honestly. For the most part, I’ve found everyone here to be incredibly tolerant and kind when expressing their views.
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Re: Message from the Mediator

Post by KrystalA » Wed Nov 07, 2018 12:22 pm

Thank you all for reading and commenting. I am glad to near that you all are learning and enjoying the forum. Please let me know if I need to step in and help with a situation that you are or were hurt by.

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Re: Message from the Mediator

Post by Sassyclouds » Sun Nov 11, 2018 8:50 pm

I am happy to be here. I've already made some good friends :) Thank you for your kindness too!!
I'm Sassy. After 19 yrs, married 18yrs with kids, my husband moved out 12-31-18. He told me we our separating and he moved out an hour later. We had a DD marriage for over a year but, without consistency. It was my idea. He didn't really want it.

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