So much of this applies to me too!Sassyclouds wrote: ↑Wed Jan 08, 2020 11:07 am
Ok. Pros, for me: I feel more respectful and submissive after a discipline spanking. I feel more in love and loved by my HOH after a spanking. There are less fights, obviously but, most importantly, the closeness a couple shares is just magnified, beautifully, when living a loving, domestic discipline marriage/relationship ❤
Cons for me: This type of lifestyle can make a marriage harder if BOTH people don't want it. You can not force a person to suddenly want to spank or be spanked. An HOH takes on a big responsibility in his or her role, so if the HOH is not responsible or deserving of the TIHs respect, than the marriage will become abusive. The TIH will be spanked harsh and in anger and undeserving. Then, the HOH will be inconsistent or the TIH will be confused... Basically, it's a serious lifestyle to live. You have to be careful.
BIG CON: BOTH MOST WANT TO LIVE THIS WAY. WHEN MY HUSBAND DIDN'T DO IT CONSISTENTLY OR COMPLAINED ABOUT DD, I TOLD HIM I DIDN'T WANT THIS ANYMORE. yet, I still wanted my marriage to work, because I loved my husband with my whole heart and soul
Sorry I wrote a book
PLEASE don't stop "writing books"! Even if by some fluke I'm the only one, it blessed me greatly!
Your co TiH friend. Lee