Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

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Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

Post by blogposts » Wed Feb 27, 2019 11:33 am

There are several different types of domestic discipline. While Learning Domestic Discipline primarily focuses on the traditional dynamic (a male HoH and a female submissive partner) there are a variety of other domestic discipline alternatives. One of those is known as The Spencer Plan (or the Spencer Spanking Plan). Personally, we are not advocates of The Spencer Plan since there are no defined roles (among other reasons). However, we felt it was important to present alternative domestic discipline examples because we’re aware that the domestic discipline community...

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Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

Post by Miras » Wed Feb 27, 2019 11:59 am

Well, I´m probably the single person here who must say something about this. I really like it, becouse it´s quite fair and without the most of unpleasent connotations. However if I´m really going to practice it, then, as most of like minded people, will not use these original guidelines, but simply use the principle as the starting point.
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Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

Post by Lauren » Wed Feb 27, 2019 12:09 pm

Miras,

Which guidelines would you follow and which would you disregard?

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Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

Post by Miras » Wed Feb 27, 2019 12:13 pm

Lauren wrote:
Wed Feb 27, 2019 12:09 pm
Miras,

Which guidelines would you follow and which would you disregard?
Lauren,
I mean both sides are punishable by implements and level of the clothing simply depends on the circumstances. And other types of punishments are on the table as well. I mean, the equalist principle is the main thing I´m interested in.
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Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

Post by Mel41 » Wed Feb 27, 2019 7:07 pm

I've read about the Spencer Plan before but I wonder how well it would work in practice. While both partners in a relationship are going to make mistakes, I wonder about this tit-for-tat relationship style and how well it works long term. In most relationships there is one person who is more dominant than the other, even if this difference is slight. We see it in friendships, work relationships and intimate relationships. Because of these inherent differences I would never be able to strike my husband, and still retain the level of respect that I have for him. And, truth be told, he is way harder on himself when he does screw up than I would ever be.
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Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

Post by Miras » Thu Feb 28, 2019 1:47 am

Come to think about, while there really will be always some authoritative dynamics, I am effectively looking for a sister in a wife.
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Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

Post by Miras » Fri May 24, 2019 8:06 am

As a matter of fact, I´ve recently learned from 6 years old web posts that certain married couple in my country arrived to this lifestyle gradually and instinctively.
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