Domestic Discipline blog: Should a submissive fear a spanking?

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Jx1023
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Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Should a submissive fear a spanking?

Post by Jx1023 » Sun Feb 09, 2020 8:59 pm

I agree, there’s always an apprehensive type of fear feeling knowing a spanking is coming..sometimes I’m more fearful about one than other times depending on what I did that I shouldn’t have, the implement of his choosing for the broken rule, and the possible severity of the spanking. Knowing that later that day/evening I’m getting spanked has me apprehensive throughout the day, but this also gives me time to think about what I did, and was it worth what I have coming now because of it? ...more often than not, the fear of one keeps me behaving. 🥺

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Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Should a submissive fear a spanking?

Post by SoreButTrying » Tue Feb 11, 2020 6:15 am

I fear punishment spankings most of the time. I’m pretty sure that my heart rate rises at least 50 bpm anytime I hear him open the drawer where he keeps our jumbo wooden spoon— when that thing comes out, I know he means business. If i’m being spanked for something small, he’s told me he won’t use the worst implements, and I know it’s just going to be a quick correction, I might have more of a “let’s just get this painful crap over with so we can move on” attitude. Same goes for maintenance which (at least for us) is designed to help me avoid the pain and fear that comes with punishment and isn’t supposed to be a constant source of anxiety.

I think I feel the most fear when I have something to confess to him. Not knowing how he’s going to react or how/when/if I’m going to be punished is more terrifying than the spanking itself. At that point I’m also scared of losing my precious computer and phone privileges — losing those for a week or more is scarier for me than any spanking... #millenial 😂

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