I am refusing to submit

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girlzruleboyzdrool4u
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I am refusing to submit

Post by girlzruleboyzdrool4u » Sat Mar 02, 2019 5:09 pm

I enjoy annoying the crap out of my husband. He has told me if I continue to pester and test him, I know the consequence.... I feel like since all this has started I feel like I continue to challenge him. I am actually finding it a game..... and in fact, I am refusing to submit. Not sure if this is normal or not. After a painful spanking, I don't want to go through that again!!!

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Beauty
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Re: I am refusing to submit

Post by Beauty » Sat Mar 02, 2019 5:41 pm

Welcome! I went through a phase like that. I think it took mostly time, consistency, seeing his commitment in needing this life style too and yea... several harsh spankings. Then I was secure and felt safe enough to be able to submit. Looking back on that phase, I think for me part of it was making sure there was a secure safety net. There are times when I still test if I am feeling insecure (mostly if he has a slip up which will happen) but yea he corrects it and asserts his dominance in whatever way necessary to fix my attitude. I wish you the best. It’s just a phase and gets better as you both learn together. 😊
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girlzruleboyzdrool4u
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Re: I am refusing to submit

Post by girlzruleboyzdrool4u » Sat Mar 02, 2019 7:15 pm

thanks... i'm glad i'm not the only one

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DDwife
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Re: I am refusing to submit

Post by DDwife » Tue Mar 05, 2019 7:55 pm

welcome to the forum :)
You are definitely not the only one. I am in that phase now. Ever since we moved into the apartment, he hasn't spanked me once! not even a reminder or maintenance, etc. So I'm beginning to test him.
Desiring Discipline to help me change!

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Re: I am refusing to submit

Post by Coryman » Mon Mar 11, 2019 12:33 pm

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DDwife
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Re: I am refusing to submit

Post by DDwife » Wed Mar 13, 2019 3:12 am

Coryman wrote:
Mon Mar 11, 2019 12:33 pm
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Why did you delete your post? I never got a chance to read it. :(
Desiring Discipline to help me change!

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DesertRose
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Re: I am refusing to submit

Post by DesertRose » Mon May 13, 2019 7:25 pm

Oh this is interesting.. but I feel that I understand it. I guess everyone would live this phase in some point ;)
🌸 I want a husband who will love me enough to punish me.
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Re: I am refusing to submit

Post by Reedman » Thu May 23, 2019 10:36 am

I can relate. It's not easy to submit. Sometimes it takes a lot of trust and time.

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Re: I am refusing to submit

Post by Gandalfthered » Mon May 27, 2019 7:34 pm

Does he reward your submission? Is he neglecting that? I love to submit and get the praise and compliments.

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