I think there are pros and cons to every situation.
Absolutely agree Miss Rose, even though we still don't have children of our own, I wouldn't trade the joy of having them around for anything. We must balance our priorities and adapt to every situation to make life work, DD or not.
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Thick yardstick is quiet and hurts with like 20 or more for me. Unfortunately you can get several thick yard sticks on amazon. Search thick yard sticks. You can get several of them for a cheap price. If our kids are awake we use that. Usually we wait for bedtime and he uses the belt or leather paddle
We have two children. Both are under the age of 10. A couple of days ago I had to discipline my wife mid day and our discipline sessions always take place in our master bathroom. It's quite large but my younger was in the living room watching television and my older was at school. Our spankings last about 10 minutes. Took her in the bathroom, took care of business and came right back out. I personally think all implements produce some kind of noise but paddles are definitely the loudest. We also have a cane but that is for the longer spankings and those are always done at the end of the night when the kids are asleep. The cane is very quiet though.