Practicing DD in a family home

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DesertRose
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Re: Practicing DD in a family home

Post by DesertRose » Wed Dec 30, 2020 3:35 pm

ScottishHusband wrote:
Tue Dec 22, 2020 9:30 pm
When I read posts like this one, I realise how fortunate I am not having kids around. SheWhoMustBeObeyed can administer a sound thrashing on my bare bottom whenever and wherever she chooses.
I think there are pros and cons to every situation.
🌸 I want a husband who will love me enough to punish me.
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Re: Practicing DD in a family home

Post by Paul_PWE » Wed Dec 30, 2020 5:41 pm

DesertRose wrote:
Wed Dec 30, 2020 3:35 pm
I think there are pros and cons to every situation.
Absolutely agree Miss Rose, even though we still don't have children of our own, I wouldn't trade the joy of having them around for anything. We must balance our priorities and adapt to every situation to make life work, DD or not.
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Re: Practicing DD in a family home

Post by AnthonyHOH » Fri Feb 05, 2021 10:38 am

We have two children. Both are under the age of 10. A couple of days ago I had to discipline my wife mid day and our discipline sessions always take place in our master bathroom. It's quite large but my younger was in the living room watching television and my older was at school. Our spankings last about 10 minutes. Took her in the bathroom, took care of business and came right back out. I personally think all implements produce some kind of noise but paddles are definitely the loudest. We also have a cane but that is for the longer spankings and those are always done at the end of the night when the kids are asleep. The cane is very quiet though.

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Re: Practicing DD in a family home

Post by KirsiK » Wed Oct 20, 2021 8:04 am

I know that most couples in domestic discipline relationships try to hide the spanking from the children and I understand why they do it… it can be really awkward and lead to embarrassing situations if the children know about it. However, children are really smart and experts on everything regarding their parents… so, I question if one really can keep domestic discipline hidden from the children in the long run.

The parents might think that the children do not know what is going on, but often they know MUCH more than the parents think they do. However, since the parents try to hide the domestic discipline from the children it becomes something taboo and secret that the children do not dare to talk with their parents about… and that`s not good. Or worse… the children know that something is going on, but they do not understand what. Which might make them draw the wrong conclusions, worrying about abuse or that the parents will get a divorce.

I know that this is difficult, but I would recommend not to underestimate the children and never lie to the children. Instead, even though it is awkward and embarrassing, talk and explain what is going on to them. Let them ask questions and answer and explain as well as one can. I am not saying that the spankings need to happen in front of the children, but that they should know about them (they probably do anyway) and if they hear a spanking it`s not the end of the world in my opinion.

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Re: Practicing DD in a family home

Post by Jacob HF » Tue Nov 09, 2021 7:45 pm

My older children know that I had sex with their mother. But I never announced that I was doing it.

Similarly, they know that I was in charge of my wife, but they don't need to know all of the details.

They may be surprised someday when I give paddles to my sons-in-law.

--Jacob

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