Re: Best Friend, Drinks, Joking Around, and fun with DD
Posted: Sat Mar 30, 2019 10:45 am
I would be worried if I am subject to get spanked in front of my friend.. but I am not sure if a sub should have a say on matters like this.
Let's learn about the lifestyle together!
Well...actually, she doesn't totally agree with my DD lifestyle, but she Definitely agrees I need it and that it is something that really works for me and our marriage.Goldilocks wrote: ↑Sun Mar 17, 2019 10:45 amActually, J and I put KGirl on speaker phone yesterday. KGirl spearheaded a DD conversation and J verbally stated she completely agreed DD was what I needed. She totally appoved of our DDlifestyle. She said she knows I need rules and structure. Knowing J's true feelings about DD gave me a great sense of relief.NateG wrote: ↑Sat Mar 16, 2019 9:06 pmGoldilocks,
Sounds like you had a good time...sounds fun! You should ask PapaBear what he thinks about disciplining you when she comes to live with you.
He might be willing to spank you if she is there. I wouldn't be afraid to, but it really depends on the friend. There are some friends of my wife that I would and some I definitely wouldn't. Also, depending on the friend, if she is living there, she might be subject to punishments also. But not in most cases, can't trust many people.
I haven't had a chance to talk to PapaBear about our phone conversation. So he doesnt know exactly how J feels. I'm not sure what he will or won't be comfortable about doing infront of her. I do know he will spank me in private in our bedroom, whether she is home or not. That will be no different than how we do things with kids around.
PapaBear would never be comfortable disciplining someone else. And J would Never subject herself to punishment.