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Re: Disciplined for being unladylike

Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 9:14 am
by Briannahong
Lol! Trust me, he was!

I think he got his point across. I’ve got the red booty to prove it!

Re: Disciplined for being unladylike

Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 3:03 pm
by TrentMontana
Yep, sometimes accidents happen. That being said, I think the rule and application are on point. Ladies should be seen and not heard.... in that regard ;)

Re: Disciplined for being unladylike

Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 4:22 pm
by Lauren
TrentMontana wrote:
Fri Nov 23, 2018 3:03 pm
Yep, sometimes accidents happen. That being said, I think the rule and application are on point. Ladies should be seen and not heard.... in that regard ;)
Excuse me? Farts happen. As well as burps. Especially during pregnancy. I don't know how many times during any 3 of my pregnancies that something comes out of my butt or mouth unexpectedly. You don't think it's embarrassing for me? All you can do is say is excuse me and move on. Women or men! The rude and disrespectful thing here was that she fanned it towards her husband and acted immaturely.

Re: Disciplined for being unladylike

Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 5:11 pm
by SurrealSD
EVERYONE should be seen, and make an effort to not be heard.

Farts-as-performance-art stops being cool at about 6 years old.

Re: Disciplined for being unladylike

Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 5:15 pm
by Lauren
SurrealSD wrote:
Fri Nov 23, 2018 5:11 pm
Farts-as-performance-art stops being cool at about 6 years old.
Oh man, you mean I have to stop making songs by using my armpit to fart?? :lol: JUST KIDDING!

Re: Disciplined for being unladylike

Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 6:19 pm
by TheGoodWifeLife
Yep, I would be livid if dh “fanned” his stinky gas at me! I can absolutely understand why he’d be upset if I did the same. That said, we’re all human, ladies and gentlemen. It happens. How you handle it is the dealbreaker. I know everyone has different ways of dealing with embarrassing things, and when you spend enough time with another human, they’re gonna happen. As a little girl, I once peed my pants because I was too embarrassed and shy to ask a friend’s parents to stop at a rest stop so I could use the restroom. I learned when is and isn’t an appropriate time to announce your bodily functions lol, but I was never one to celebrate them.

Re: Disciplined for being unladylike

Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 11:23 pm
by NateG
Definitely deserved the spanking after trying to wave it at him. I just don't like that...I know it's natural but unless you are pregnant and have an excuse, please don't fart around me.

Re: Disciplined for being unladylike

Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2018 9:28 am
by Briannahong
TheGoodWifeLife wrote:
Fri Nov 23, 2018 6:19 pm
Yep, I would be livid if dh “fanned” his stinky gas at me! I can absolutely understand why he’d be upset if I did the same. That said, we’re all human, ladies and gentlemen. It happens. How you handle it is the dealbreaker. I know everyone has different ways of dealing with embarrassing things, and when you spend enough time with another human, they’re gonna happen. As a little girl, I once peed my pants because I was too embarrassed and shy to ask a friend’s parents to stop at a rest stop so I could use the restroom. I learned when is and isn’t an appropriate time to announce your bodily functions lol, but I was never one to celebrate them.
Yeah, if it was an accidental kind of thing it wouldn’t have even been an issue. I definitely crossed a line as far as respect goes.

Re: Disciplined for being unladylike

Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2018 10:31 am
by Briannahong
Thank you all for your comments! A sore bottom via maintenance spannings has kept me thinking twice about disrespecting my HoH especially so overtly!
He was 100% in the right, and I feel the experience (and the structured MD to follow) has accomplished its goal in ultimately bringing us closer as a unit!

Re: Disciplined for being unladylike

Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2019 9:37 pm
by Sorebooty
Lol!!! I read this thread and I think it’s a hilarious situation 😆 My HOH and I are waaaayyy too comfy with the farting...she wouldn’t bat an eye if I waved a fart at her in private, but different strokes...(hehe). Looks like the main issue was disrespecting him more than just being “unladylike”.
I guess just be a little bit more discreet with your farts and it’ll be a non-issue in the future 😉
Good luck! 💨