Punishment Paddle

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FayeTina
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Punishment Paddle

Post by FayeTina » Thu Aug 12, 2021 5:17 pm

Hi everyone,
I am just looking for some advice/ insight. My partner and I have been practicing DD for approximately two years. Although due to Covid, spankings and in person punishments have been very sporadic. As a result my behaviour has definitely suffered. We’ve decided to invest in a "punishment paddle" for more serious offences. Up until now we’ve only used hand, belts, crops and leather paddles. This is our first wooden implement and is 16”x4” Purpleheart paddle with 8 bevelled holes drilled through.
I’m fully aware that I’m going to be given a severe (and well deserved) paddling when we are finally able to meet again next week. I was hoping some of you more experienced would be able to give me some insight into how bad it may actually be/ how it will compare with any of the other implements we’ve previously used. And also any tips on what I need to be doing both before (leading up to) and after my punishment to ensure there is no real, lasting damage. While still ensuring that I will feel it for a few days after, and remember it for a lot longer.

Thank you all in advance,
Faye

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NateG
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Re: Punishment Paddle

Post by NateG » Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:50 pm

Hello,

I would warn that a wooden paddle like that will hurt for sure. I'd try not to tense your rear cheeks...it seems to cause more bruising. Will you be paddled standing and bent over or in another position? Be sure your partner is aware of how much these paddles can hurt, so that he doesn't get too carried away.

I would advise to try your best to stay relaxed, don't move or get out of position and be of the right frame of mind before being paddled. If this requires corner time or other reflection before hand, do that. A good lecture from your partner will also help in that regard.

I am sure you will not want to do a lot to earn many spankings with that paddle after you have tasted it.

Nate

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Re: Punishment Paddle

Post by FayeTina » Fri Aug 13, 2021 11:39 am

NateG wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:50 pm
Hello,

I would warn that a wooden paddle like that will hurt for sure. I'd try not to tense your rear cheeks...it seems to cause more bruising. Will you be paddled standing and bent over or in another position? Be sure your partner is aware of how much these paddles can hurt, so that he doesn't get too carried away.

I would advise to try your best to stay relaxed, don't move or get out of position and be of the right frame of mind before being paddled. If this requires corner time or other reflection before hand, do that. A good lecture from your partner will also help in that regard.

I am sure you will not want to do a lot to earn many spankings with that paddle after you have tasted it.

Nate
Hi Nate, thank you so much for all your advice!! Punishments are always carried out either OTK or bent over furniture depending on the length of the implement.
I’m hoping the paddle will be very effective and not need to make many appearances at all
Faye x

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Re: Punishment Paddle

Post by NateG » Fri Aug 13, 2021 7:09 pm

Faye,

I think you will find it effective. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

Nate

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