How do you spank?

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DesertRose
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Re: How do you spank?

Post by DesertRose » Sat Feb 06, 2021 1:45 pm

Mrsjohn wrote:
Sat Feb 06, 2021 12:34 pm
DesertRose
I've never had a spanking with warm up then implement so I don't know.
I read that warm up minimizes bruises and helps longing the spanking to have a better emotional effect.
🌸 I want a husband who will love me enough to punish me.
DesertRose

VernAKmiss
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Re: How do you spank?

Post by VernAKmiss » Sat Feb 06, 2021 7:24 pm

How I am spanked:

We do a weekly review where he checks my journal and writings of any infractions. We discuss it and talk about it some depending on what’s in there and also be reminded of all of the rules/goals. I am always fully nude and he usually would start with OTK but being pregnant now that’s not possible at this point so last time I was standing in front of him facing the side and bent over the bed for my spanking. He talks throughout using mostly this wooden spoon with a wide round end that doesn’t have a scoop on the end. So it’s not really a spoon more like a small paddle? But it’s light so it stings. He will alternate between that and his hand, he broke the wooden hair brush we got so I’m not sure if we will
Get another one of those. He will spank and lecture and ask questions about my week and drive home certain points or things he wants me to work on. Then when he’s satisfied and my bottom is pink and warm he will add on the punishment swats (if I earned any that week, if not then he will usually go a little harder with the spoon at the end for the last few spanks) with the paddle with holes. It’s a shorter one so it only hits one side at a time and it hurts sooo dang bad. For these I always have to stand, spread my legs and then bend and grab my ankles. (Being pregnant though now he’s letting me bed and hold the back of the couch). Ugh I hate this position so much. I try not to take my hands off my ankles or pick up my feet but sometimes it’s hard. Usually he tells me how many I’ve earned with the paddle but this last time he didn’t. We’re still learning and tweaking things as we go. He’s used a plug on me before during a spanking and it definitely put me right into submissive mode but it was uncomfortable and made me squirmy. He hasn’t used corner time to reflect after or before but I could definitely see it being useful. I may respectfully bring it up in the coming weeks. He’s getting very good at reading my body language and knowing how long and hard to spank depending on why we’re there.

Larry
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Re: How do you spank?

Post by Larry » Sun Feb 07, 2021 2:14 pm

My wife makes me strip naked. Get her the implement she has decided on. She the spanks me and has me stand in the corner afterwards. Sometimes I have to stay naked the rest of the day

markiee
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Re: How do you spank?

Post by markiee » Sat Oct 16, 2021 9:08 am

Joshua89 wrote:
Thu Nov 30, 2017 11:10 am
I get the paddle every time.

I've purchased other implements in the past to try and steer my HOH away from that damn paddle, but normally she won't even pick the new implement up so I quit trying and just accepted it.

More recently my HOH started hand spanking me as a warm up prior to using her paddle. A typical punishment for minor mishaps; chores, mouthing off, etc... is 10 hand spankings and 30-40 with the damn paddle.

Aftercare helps me feel the love and intimacy, she ALWAYS rubs skin care oil on my backside before I am allowed to get up from position.

Yeah, my wife does the same thing. Man can she spank.

OTKspnkr
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Re: How do you spank?

Post by OTKspnkr » Sat Oct 16, 2021 1:20 pm

I spank my wife pretty much the same way every time. First she is required to strip completely naked. Then I will make her go and fetch the implement I will spank here with, usually this is a paddle. She then has to prepare everything for the spanking. This includes putting a chair in the middle of the room, and putting her hair in a pony tail. I like to implicate her in her own spanking. It really adds a lot to it. Then I will sit in the chair and she will stand in front of me and explain why she is being spanked and admit that she deserves it. This puts her in the right mind set right away. Then she goes over my knee. I start with the hand to warm her up a bit, then I spank her with the paddle. I will vary the severity depending on the infraction, but I usually spank her fairly hard. More often than not there are tears. Her spankings always end in corner time and she is never allow to be dressed for it. I think the display of her spanked bottom adds an important humbling aspect to it. Typically this corner time last for about 15 to 20 mins. I have found this routine to be very effective for her. It has helped rid her of several bad habits.

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