Lectures during spanking

[darrone]

If the lecture is done at a point where spanking isn’t happening at that moment, do you have to look at him during? Or for the HOHs, do you make her look at you?

For most of the lecture she's required to keep her eyes downcast - it's a sign of submissiveness and respect as I describe the breach of discipline and remind her how to do better in future.

She's required to look at me when the words "Now, about your penalty" are spoken, at which point I explain the nature and duration of the impending sanction. If she hesitates to raise her head I slide the handle of the paddle under her chin to elevate her eyes.