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Re: Nature of Consent

Posted: Wed Jan 22, 2020 11:48 am
by Phil04
Sassyclouds wrote:
Wed Jan 22, 2020 11:34 am
This was a great thread. I think, very helpful to everyone. I love and trusted my husband completely. We were married almost 17 yrs with 2 kids, when he finally agreed to try DD. Unfortunately, in my case, non of that mattered. He changed. DD, D/s, BDSM, really changed my husband. DD is dangerous if your HOH becomes abusive. I don't think revoking my consent to having DD in our marriage, just the physical punishments/spankings, would have mattered to my husband. I tried to tell him I no longer consented. He just said you consented in the beginning and that's all that matters.
Your husband is wrong. From what you have said, your relationship do move from healthy DD into abuse, and you were right to leave him.

Phil

Re: Nature of Consent

Posted: Wed Jan 22, 2020 4:45 pm
by DesertRose
Sassyclouds wrote:
Wed Jan 22, 2020 11:34 am
This was a great thread. I think, very helpful to everyone. I love and trusted my husband completely. We were married almost 17 yrs with 2 kids, when he finally agreed to try DD. Unfortunately, in my case, non of that mattered. He changed. DD, D/s, BDSM, really changed my husband. DD is dangerous if your HOH becomes abusive. I don't think revoking my consent to having DD in our marriage, just the physical punishments/spankings, would have mattered to my husband. I tried to tell him I no longer consented. He just said you consented in the beginning and that's all that matters.
I don't think that DD changed your ex-husband, I'm sorry to say that he didn't earn your submission to him in the first place.

Re: Nature of Consent

Posted: Sat Jan 25, 2020 7:33 pm
by Sassyclouds
Consent is wonderful