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Re: Live in friend

Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2019 8:49 am
by Goldilocks
kgirl wrote:
Tue Jun 18, 2019 8:04 am
As a personal friend of Goldilocks, I know the situation and I know her friend. To me the smirk, chuckle was an indication of her acceptance of her friend's DD marriage. Instead of questioning or making comments, the smirk/ chuckle was a way of putting a very embarrassed Goldilocks at ease. :)
Thanks, kgirl! I know I can always count on the both of you to help me find my stuff, remember my butt, and to be there to give emotional support in large or small ways. l hope you two can feel the same about me.(except helping you find stuff and remembering your butt part. :lol: )

Re: Live in friend

Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2019 11:40 am
by NateG
kgirl wrote:
Tue Jun 18, 2019 8:04 am
As a personal friend of Goldilocks, I know the situation and I know her friend. To me the smirk, chuckle was an indication of her acceptance of her friend's DD marriage. Instead of questioning or making comments, the smirk/ chuckle was a way of putting a very embarrassed Goldilocks at ease. :)
I agree and that's what I thought initially. Sounds like a great friend. I don't quite understand why she is uncomfortable with the DD aspect, but looks like she is understanding it better.

Re: Live in friend

Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2019 1:32 pm
by Goldilocks
NateG wrote:
Tue Jun 18, 2019 11:40 am
kgirl wrote:
Tue Jun 18, 2019 8:04 am
As a personal friend of Goldilocks, I know the situation and I know her friend. To me the smirk, chuckle was an indication of her acceptance of her friend's DD marriage. Instead of questioning or making comments, the smirk/ chuckle was a way of putting a very embarrassed Goldilocks at ease. :)
I agree and that's what I thought initially. Sounds like a great friend. I don't quite understand why she is uncomfortable with the DD aspect, but looks like she is understanding it better.
She is a great friend. I thought about finding an opportunity to talk to her again. Like have an in-depth conversation about DD. It would be awesome to get her complete point of view on things.

Re: Live in friend

Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2019 3:15 pm
by NateG
I think part of any reluctance or worry about DD is cultural... both from feminist teachings that show men in a bad light and of course from real domestic abuse. Although that goes both ways.

Re: Live in friend

Posted: Wed Jun 19, 2019 7:23 am
by Goldilocks
NateG wrote:
Tue Jun 18, 2019 3:15 pm
I think part of any reluctance or worry about DD is cultural... both from feminist teachings that show men in a bad light and of course from real domestic abuse. Although that goes both ways.
I think hers us more of feminist culture because she doesn't see it as abuse. But she isn't a over zealous feminist. She definitely doesn't feel superior to any man and she is a realist and doesn't take things to extreme.

I really need to find a chance to talk to her about DD.

Re: Live in friend

Posted: Wed Jun 19, 2019 7:43 am
by Miras
Goldilocks wrote:
Wed Jun 19, 2019 7:23 am
NateG wrote:
Tue Jun 18, 2019 3:15 pm
I think part of any reluctance or worry about DD is cultural... both from feminist teachings that show men in a bad light and of course from real domestic abuse. Although that goes both ways.
I think hers us more of feminist culture because she doesn't see it as abuse. But she isn't a over zealous feminist. She definitely doesn't feel superior to any man and she is a realist and doesn't take things to extreme.

I really need to find a chance to talk to her about DD.
I always felt that idespite this D/S dynamics, the lifestyle should be practiced in the form that actually enhances mutual respect and empathy, but that is hard to demonstrate to people on the outside.

Re: Live in friend

Posted: Wed Jun 19, 2019 9:01 am
by Goldilocks
Miras wrote:
Wed Jun 19, 2019 7:43 am
Goldilocks wrote:
Wed Jun 19, 2019 7:23 am
NateG wrote:
Tue Jun 18, 2019 3:15 pm
I think part of any reluctance or worry about DD is cultural... both from feminist teachings that show men in a bad light and of course from real domestic abuse. Although that goes both ways.
I think hers us more of feminist culture because she doesn't see it as abuse. But she isn't a over zealous feminist. She definitely doesn't feel superior to any man and she is a realist and doesn't take things to extreme.

I really need to find a chance to talk to her about DD.
I always felt that idespite this D/S dynamics, the lifestyle should be practiced in the form that actually enhances mutual respect and empathy, but that is hard to demonstrate to people on the outside.
It is hard. But it's different when you live together. So i think/hope she has a better understanding than some was to what D/s is about.

Re: Live in friend

Posted: Wed Jun 19, 2019 7:36 pm
by Joshua89
Goldilocks wrote:
Thu Jun 13, 2019 2:11 pm
I kind of touched base on this in my journal but I thought it belongs here too:

So I got a hell of a spanking Sunday. Sunday evening I popped a major attitude and acted like a bratty toddler infront of PapaBear and my Best friend who is now officially living with us.
That night I got a bedtime spanking and he informed me that my outburst is why my bestie went to bed early. I cried because I felt so bad. Of course when the spanking was over and all was forgiven, I was still anxious about seeing my bestie in the morning.

Well that next evening, we went out to the store together. I was gingerly getting in her car and kind of winced a little bit. She just gave me this side ways glance and had a smirk on her face.
She said, "So...did you get in trouble last night?"
I think I turned 5 shades of red and said, "yeah, I did."
She chuckled a little and said, "yeah. I bet you did."
It was the most embarrassing shortest conversation I ever had.

oh no! Sounds embarrassing. Double effective punishment :shock:

Re: Live in friend

Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2019 9:56 am
by Goldilocks
Joshua89 wrote:
Wed Jun 19, 2019 7:36 pm
Goldilocks wrote:
Thu Jun 13, 2019 2:11 pm
I kind of touched base on this in my journal but I thought it belongs here too:

So I got a hell of a spanking Sunday. Sunday evening I popped a major attitude and acted like a bratty toddler infront of PapaBear and my Best friend who is now officially living with us.
That night I got a bedtime spanking and he informed me that my outburst is why my bestie went to bed early. I cried because I felt so bad. Of course when the spanking was over and all was forgiven, I was still anxious about seeing my bestie in the morning.

Well that next evening, we went out to the store together. I was gingerly getting in her car and kind of winced a little bit. She just gave me this side ways glance and had a smirk on her face.
She said, "So...did you get in trouble last night?"
I think I turned 5 shades of red and said, "yeah, I did."
She chuckled a little and said, "yeah. I bet you did."
It was the most embarrassing shortest conversation I ever had.

oh no! Sounds embarrassing. Double effective punishment :shock:
YEP! Very effective. Lol.