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by CassLynn
Thu Sep 13, 2018 1:52 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 51
Views: 43748

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

Wow. My first instinct is that he is out of line. Your experience with the caning was very problematic and him deciding to not only gloss that over but insist on more strictness in general is concerning. He wants to triple the intensity of maintenance just like that??!! DD is not going to work if th...
by CassLynn
Thu Sep 13, 2018 12:00 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Daddy and Little
Replies: 4
Views: 1904

Re: Daddy and Little

Welcome to the forum! Congrats on starting DD.
by CassLynn
Tue Sep 11, 2018 5:05 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 51
Views: 43748

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

Following along here. I get what FFF is saying. I agree that Nate is awesome. I also believe that being careful and gentle with each other here should be a goal and really isn’t that hard. People come here with very intimate details and often are really struggling. It might not be the best place for...
by CassLynn
Tue Sep 04, 2018 7:07 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 51
Views: 43748

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

I feel really bad that you were hurt emotionally by the amount of force used. I think it works out best if the sub feels a lot of guilt when receiving a very painful punishment because the pain then makes sense and can be accepted. Your husband must have felt that the incident was more serious than ...
by CassLynn
Mon Sep 03, 2018 5:46 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi - a little early
Replies: 11
Views: 3826

Re: Hi - a little early

Welcome back. I think there are many couples who stop and start for reasons similar to what you explained. Consistency is best of course but working around life is reality. We’ve had brief times where it didn’t fit but we’ve been able to come back to it ok when we were ready again.
by CassLynn
Mon Aug 27, 2018 5:23 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Roll Call
Replies: 16
Views: 4970

Re: Roll Call

I’m the sub and my husband K is the Hoh. He’s not on the forum.
by CassLynn
Mon Jul 23, 2018 9:29 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: City Limits of Painsville
Replies: 28
Views: 9990

Re: City Limits of Painsville

Yes I get lots of TLC before and after hard spankings and sometimes even during. The way he will rub me between sets of swats is pretty tender and I get the message that even then he is feeling love for me. What he says while he spanks me can be really loving too. If I’m being punished for having a ...
by CassLynn
Sun Jul 22, 2018 2:18 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Natural Submissive Woman
Replies: 6
Views: 2358

Re: Natural Submissive Woman

Welcome. This is a great place to be.
by CassLynn
Fri Jul 20, 2018 5:38 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Newbie with a red hiney
Replies: 11
Views: 9338

Re: Newbie with a red hiney

I’ve been a sub for three months in a formal DD arrangement. I got spanked that much at first too. I did have lots of doubts but I got over them all. It’s a big change to make and I asked all the hard questions and answered them and asked them again but now I’ve been comfortable with the whole thing...
by CassLynn
Wed Jul 18, 2018 2:22 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: City Limits of Painsville
Replies: 28
Views: 9990

Re: City Limits of Painsville

Thanks for the compliment. I wish I could take on life the way I can take a paddle. Maybe some day.