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by CassLynn
Sun Nov 11, 2018 10:07 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: I think this is something every HOH should do!! It was so interesting to me as the TIH...
Replies: 9
Views: 4311

Re: I think this is something every HOH should do!! It was so interesting to me as the TIH...

We have recorded many sessions. I have come to an absolute peace and acceptance with how my body looks in them. I see myself now as loved. I love watching our videos. I can see the love on K’s face when he’s spanking me. I understand watching yourself isn’t for everyone but it’s a special part of wh...
by CassLynn
Tue Nov 06, 2018 11:31 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Message from the Mediator
Replies: 14
Views: 5258

Re: Message from the Mediator

I add my vote on the Sweeties! They are very considerate.
by CassLynn
Mon Nov 05, 2018 12:37 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: My Husband Will Never Be Consistent. I Don't Care Anymore. I Give Up.
Replies: 11
Views: 4439

Re: Update My HOH is going to be consistent starting tomorrow!

That’s why this forum is so great. You find out you’re not crazy.
by CassLynn
Mon Nov 05, 2018 2:12 am
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: My Husband Will Never Be Consistent. I Don't Care Anymore. I Give Up.
Replies: 11
Views: 4439

Re: Update My HOH is going to be consistent starting tomorrow!

It took me some effort to get my guy consistent and strict enough but once I got him there he was very good at it! He’s been steady at keeping me in check ever since then. I didn’t like it when I thought he wasn’t following through. I felt so uncertain. It’s funny how a woman can feel so loved by he...
by CassLynn
Fri Nov 02, 2018 3:42 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Having a hard time admitting that I need this.
Replies: 8
Views: 4090

Re: Having a hard time admitting that I need this.

Sometimes I ask myself if I mind needing this. I don’t. I like it. It keeps the spark burning brighter, it keeps the house cleaner, it keeps my husband and I more connected. It is our secret. Our special thing. And I know K likes that I like it. So it all works out.
by CassLynn
Thu Nov 01, 2018 10:34 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Does the Sub have a say in what becomes a Rule?
Replies: 17
Views: 6987

Re: Does the Sub have a say in what becomes a Rule?

My husband and I chose our rules together. It’s the 4 Ds plus getting all my chores done.
by CassLynn
Wed Oct 10, 2018 12:42 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: HoH Series: Being The Leader
Replies: 2
Views: 1392

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: HoH Series: Being The Leader

Good post Clint. I like your emphasis on kindness and positivity as ways for a leader to interact in the home. At college I studied management types and the proven most effective is a kind manager who leads by example, inspiring compliance. Coercion and denigration are more popular styles but way le...
by CassLynn
Mon Oct 08, 2018 10:22 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Husband is on board!
Replies: 13
Views: 4392

Re: Husband is on board!

I’m so glad to hear that it helped you! Great job being patient and being willing to keep being patient.
by CassLynn
Mon Oct 08, 2018 6:17 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Husband is on board!
Replies: 13
Views: 4392

Re: Husband is on board!

Wow. What he suspects you of is really horrible and, as you said, makes no sense. But I recognize it. My husbands ex was a nasty person who used tears and emotion to manipulate and if she apologized it was always sarcastic. He often is convinced that I’m being insincere or manipulative. I am a total...
by CassLynn
Mon Oct 08, 2018 6:06 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Still deliberating....
Replies: 11
Views: 3779

Re: Still deliberating....

In the beginning I questioned if I was crazy too. A lot. But I finally got over that. I’ve never regretted doing it. It’s brought almost all positive things and very little negative. Unless you count right during a punishment. I worried a lot about asking my husband to take on the big responsibility...