Domestic Discipline Forum

Very possible

Could be. Let us know how it goes. For us if I ask for one K is always happy to help because it actually relieves his stress just as much as mine especially if I’ve been anxious or moody. Think of what a dream come true for a husband “hey honey I’m moody and a pain in the ass come smack me a few tim...

Dad gum. I wrote a whole paragraph and hit submit and it went away into the ether because other new comments had since been submitted. I hate when that happens!!! Basically I said gas can’t be avoided but the way it escapes can be made quite discreet. K and I never perceive each other’s functions. A...

Great news! Welcome!

I think that’s just the right thing to do and shows great character. That’s true love.

Congrats and welcome! Yes. My first few punishments I felt absolutely nauseous beforehand. I got over that pretty quickly. Honestly it wasn’t very long before both my husband and I were discussing how amazed we were at all the unexpected benefits of DD. Our plan was to try it out and if it was ok to...

Glad to hear I make someone laugh! I regularly get my jollies by reading comments and posts here.

I’ve had both cane and switch and I think they hurt about the same by the way. Definitely good for remembering lessons for a long time.

Ah the cane won’t kill ya. It just hurts that’s all.

Welcome and good luck! I had to do a lot of persuading at the beginning for my husband but now he is a believer! And a hard spanker!

Yes different couples use different severities of punishments. We do hundreds of strokes too. We like it that way. Those of you who would never in a million years want to do that—good for you. It’s a very customized thing.