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by VernAKmiss
Fri Nov 06, 2020 3:30 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Christians...? I’d love some input.
Replies: 21
Views: 3407

Re: Christians...? I’d love some input.

Lauren thank you so much for your reply. I appreciate you saying not to obsess over what others do. And I think I have been trying to take parts and pieces from others and imagine what it will play out like for us. We haven’t even begun DD anything officially so I think I’m trying to be educated wit...
by VernAKmiss
Fri Nov 06, 2020 1:46 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4683

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

Well he will be home tomorrow and said we would talk in person about what I sent him. He also ordered himself new beard brush and opted for a wooden one with a handle, I just picked it up from the mail box today. I showed him it over face time and made some sly comments about its potential use... I’...
by VernAKmiss
Thu Nov 05, 2020 11:41 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Punishment when pregnant
Replies: 23
Views: 3777

Re: Punishment when pregnant

I mean that we can't control our emotional reactions at the moment. They happen before we can think. What she does have control over is how she behaves while she has that mood. This is a contradiction. I think that what Jacob is saying is that feelings are indicators, not dictators. We may feel ups...
by VernAKmiss
Thu Nov 05, 2020 11:05 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Christians...? I’d love some input.
Replies: 21
Views: 3407

Re: Christians...? I’d love some input.

I’ve had issues with healthy eating and being pregnant again I want to eat as healthily as possible and cut back my sugar intake. I haven't talked about this much here, but I am extremely anti-sugar. I think sugar is literally killing about 2/3 of Americans. However, while we should all avoid sugar...
by VernAKmiss
Thu Nov 05, 2020 9:27 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Christians...? I’d love some input.
Replies: 21
Views: 3407

Re: Christians...? I’d love some input.

Jacob I loved your response, thank you for sharing! We haven't practiced christianity in a long time so I won't speak to that but I do really appreciate hearing the influence it has on people Spanking was suggested to us so it's a little different but the trails cross. I don't feel guilty at all fo...
by VernAKmiss
Thu Nov 05, 2020 4:39 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Punishment when pregnant
Replies: 23
Views: 3777

Re: Punishment when pregnant

I’m sure it’s a fine line. I am currently pregnant and the hormones are definitely tricky to navigate and would surely expect some grace/mercy from my husband during the circumstances. I would say it has to be your discretion to decide? Is it a constant state of attitude and excuses due to hormones ...
by VernAKmiss
Thu Nov 05, 2020 3:05 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Christians...? I’d love some input.
Replies: 21
Views: 3407

Re: Christians...? I’d love some input.

I appreciate your reply! And I love the comparison to a ship. I guess I didn’t necessarily mean that I want to/intend to step down from the responsibilities I have because I do handle them well (mostly) and have the expertise in them. I think what I’m looking for is for my husband to do exactly what...
by VernAKmiss
Thu Nov 05, 2020 1:11 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Christians...? I’d love some input.
Replies: 21
Views: 3407

Christians...? I’d love some input.

I am very interested in how you began your journey especially as a Christian. Did you ever doubt or question weather DD was a Biblical practice? Or feel guilty for introducing spanking as the wife? In our marriage (the wife) I’ve always been the ‘ring leader’, ‘runner of the show’ and ‘general manag...
by VernAKmiss
Wed Nov 04, 2020 2:26 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4683

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

Well he read it last night and I asked him if he thought I was bat sh*t crazy and he said no and that he loved me... we haven’t talked about it more than that but I suppose that’s positive?
by VernAKmiss
Wed Nov 04, 2020 2:13 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4683

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

leenicolelinn wrote:
Wed Nov 04, 2020 4:38 am
Hi Vern.
I sent a post to you earlier in regards to your letter but it is not in this thread. Hmmm I must have push the wrong button. Sorry, Anyway it looks like you already sent the letter. Good luck

Nic
I would love to chat with you more about another post you made. Can you PM ME?