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by VernAKmiss
Tue Nov 17, 2020 3:19 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4683

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

Joshua, I definitely appreciate your perspective. It’s been an interesting journey navigating how to bring all of this up to my husband and I’m sure I didn’t do it all ‘perfectly’. You’re right about me fantasizing about it, especially since that’s all I’d ever done since I’ve only really read about...
by VernAKmiss
Sat Nov 14, 2020 1:13 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Christians...? I’d love some input.
Replies: 21
Views: 3407

Re: Christians...? I’d love some input.

Did you ever doubt or question whether DD was a Biblical practice? Nope. Neither my wife nor I have ever struggled with integrating DD with our Christian faith. We both believe that the Bible describes certain roles for men and women that are anchored all the way back in Creation and reinforced thr...
by VernAKmiss
Wed Nov 11, 2020 1:35 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4683

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

I suppose I better be careful with what I’ve wished for. Last night after getting kids to bed I was in the bathroom at the sink and he comes in with a plug. He tells me to put it in and then he takes off all of my clothes. I asked him what we are doing and he said you wanted me to practice. So we’re...
by VernAKmiss
Mon Nov 09, 2020 11:51 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4683

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

I'm so happy for you. It seems though that your husband sees only the spanking part of it, while DD is not all about spanking. Actually, it can be well established without it. Spanking is not the goal, but a mean to reach the goal. I'd suggest that you set one rule that you feel important and let h...
by VernAKmiss
Mon Nov 09, 2020 12:47 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4683

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

Yes! I am too. I already thanked him and we talked even more later in the evening. He’s like if you just need me to spank you every day or every week or whatever I can do that. I just don’t know about all the rules and such. I said well let’s just start here and see what happens. I mentioned my grum...
by VernAKmiss
Sun Nov 08, 2020 9:16 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4683

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

Well we finally talked. Started out pretty awkward and he didn’t really have much to say. Saying things like I don’t know what you want me to say or what I’m supposed to say. Morphed into that we can probably work something out and that he doesn’t want to treat me like a child and that he doesn’t re...
by VernAKmiss
Sun Nov 08, 2020 5:02 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4683

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

It seems that your husband is taking it seriously. It's good. Please keep us updated. It’s Sunday and we have yet to talk about it. I am growing frustrated by his lack of bringing up something that is clearly important to me. We do have 4 kids so it’s not like we have been available to each other a...
by VernAKmiss
Sun Nov 08, 2020 1:12 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Christians...? I’d love some input.
Replies: 21
Views: 3407

Re: Christians...? I’d love some input.

You have the wrong mindset going in. Did you read the article Phil? It talked about women who aren’t spanked regularly who need to be could resort to ‘bratting’ even if they aren’t aware of it. My husband is also VERY New and VERY apprehensive about this at all. I notice my moods just increasingly g...
by VernAKmiss
Fri Nov 06, 2020 11:34 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: PA girl with desire but questions!
Replies: 8
Views: 1328

Re: PA girl with desire but questions!

I am currently in the same boat but just slightly further down the path than you. I have brought it up to my husband slowly over the past 2 months or so. He knew I enjoyed spanking sexually but for him to learn I wanted more he was a bit taken aback and confused as to how something I like could be a...
by VernAKmiss
Fri Nov 06, 2020 11:22 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Christians...? I’d love some input.
Replies: 21
Views: 3407

Re: Christians...? I’d love some input.

You may find this post helpful https://christiandomesticdisciplinelife.wordpress.com/2017/05/20/the-basics-of-domestic-discipline-the-foundation/ --Jacob I really did find that helpful along with the post on that site about maintenance spankings. Depending on how things go with the conversations wi...