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by VernAKmiss
Fri Dec 04, 2020 1:10 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Christians...? I’d love some input.
Replies: 21
Views: 3414

Re: Christians...? I’d love some input.

Hi, I’m new to this site, but so glad I found it. I’ve always been interested in spanking. Since I was a child. But never shared that info with anyone. Thank you @VernAKmiss, @Jacob HF, @Lauren, @Olivia, and @leenicolelinn for your insight. Would love to chat further about DD and Christianity. RoZi...
by VernAKmiss
Wed Dec 02, 2020 6:06 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Introduction
Replies: 37
Views: 2127

Re: Introduction

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Wed Dec 02, 2020 2:54 pm
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by VernAKmiss
Mon Nov 30, 2020 4:15 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Introduction
Replies: 37
Views: 2127

Re: Introduction

Welcome to the group!! Glad to hear your journey is off to a good start.
by VernAKmiss
Sun Nov 29, 2020 1:45 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 14
Views: 796

Re: Hello!

Welcome!! Can you share with us some about how DD plays out in your marriage?? Thanks for asking, I'll provide background to give some context. When we started dating, I had bad self-discipline, I wasn't eating healthy and was an impulsive spender. From there he became my accountability partner, to...
by VernAKmiss
Sat Nov 28, 2020 8:29 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4694

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

. There's no easy solution to this theme other than simply communicating your ideas but giving your husband the authority to decide what to do, being patient with him as he learns how to be a HoH, and letting go of your expectations. The reality is that your husband knows you more than any online f...
by VernAKmiss
Sat Nov 28, 2020 3:04 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 14
Views: 796

Re: Hello!

Welcome!! Can you share with us some about how DD plays out in your marriage??
by VernAKmiss
Sat Nov 28, 2020 3:03 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: A Tardy Hello
Replies: 12
Views: 722

Re: A Tardy Hello

Hello there!!! How long have you been practicing DD? What is the layout of your relationship including DD? My husband and I are very new to the lifestyle and I love gaining knowledge from long time DDers. Do you have any advice to a new couple?? Welcome to the forum!!
by VernAKmiss
Wed Nov 18, 2020 2:17 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4694

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

I really appreciate your detailed ideas and responses. Especially being so new trying to navigate entering this lifestyle intentionally yet carefully has been an interesting balance . I’m hoping to talk to him tonight or tomorrow and I’ll post an update!! The balance that you speak of is key, and i...
by VernAKmiss
Tue Nov 17, 2020 5:50 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4694

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

That's a great one - not only does it address something that he's already shown a willingness to correct you on, it also is a situation where he's acting on behalf of someone else (eg. protecting the kids from your attitude), which may make him more open to holding you accountable. Here's a way tha...
by VernAKmiss
Tue Nov 17, 2020 4:11 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 37
Views: 4694

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

I think adding a couple of rules/goals or accountability areas would be our next step. He was very apprehensive about ‘changing our entire relationship’ by adding rules and giving him all of this responsibility. As you think through that list of proposed rules that you posted earlier, is there any ...