Domestic Discipline Forum

I'm glad you liked my post. I think I fought him because I didn't agree with his view, normally when it came to financial matters. I am more of a spender and he isn't. I do the budget because I'm pretty good at math and he likes it that way. Also, I had a hard time respecting him because he seemed t...

DesertRose, Thank you for your input. I don't really think I unconsciously was disrespecting him because I wanted him to spank me. Over the past couple of months I've had I guess an epiphany. I never knew exactly why I disrespected him until I realized how much I craved to feel feminine in the sense...

I wanted to tell you something that may help with the communication in your relationship/marriage. I didn't realize what I'm about to tell you until late in our marriage. If you look at your husband as your equal you will have a difficult time respecting him. You have to learn to look to him as your...

Thank you so much Daninygirl! Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. I've gone through counseling in the past but have never really stuck with it because of the cost and I do start to back out because it's very difficult to talk about specific things that happened to me or that I witnessed....

Hey guys, I hope everyone is having a great day. I've been thinking lately about this subject and I wanted to get your thoughts. Clearly from the title I was abused as a kid by my father until I turned 14 years old. I also witnessed a lot of violence on my sister and sometimes my mother. I've always...

Jacob HF, Thank you for your thoughts. I like that you said unless there was a trend developing you wouldn't do anything except talk to her. I think for a lot of people, women who bring this lifestyle up, they want to have that deep respect for their husbands and because that has been lacking for so...

My husband and I are new to the DD lifestyle and I have to say I'm really shocked for the reasons husbands are spanking their wives. I really don't understand the need to punish someone for misplacing something, other than maybe if a child was in their care or rent money was lost, but even then we a...

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