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by Jwalker
Fri May 24, 2019 9:16 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 3288

Re: I don't know what to do

Here is an idea. Other couples on here use cornertime or timeouts as either a preamble to spanking or as a lesser punishment, say you hid his keys, instead of grabbing you and spanking while angry, he sends you the corner while he looks for them or until you tell him where they are.this gives you bo...
by Jwalker
Thu May 23, 2019 5:06 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 3288

Re: I don't know what to do

It seems like he is spanking angrily and for trivial things.he married you and you were probably the same way when dating and engaged. So if it isn’t something you want to change about yourself, he shouldn’t really be spanking for it so often.if he is regularly leaving bruises, it sounds to be esca...
by Jwalker
Thu May 23, 2019 4:25 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 3288

Re: I don't know what to do

It seems like he is spanking angrily and for trivial things.he married you and you were probably the same way when dating and engaged. So if it isn’t something you want to change about yourself, he shouldn’t really be spanking for it so often.if he is regularly leaving bruises, it sounds to be escal...
by Jwalker
Mon May 06, 2019 7:58 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: For all members!!
Replies: 61
Views: 4118

Re: For all members!!

I read the rules.
by Jwalker
Thu Apr 25, 2019 10:26 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: How do you spank?
Replies: 42
Views: 13753

Re: How do you spank?

I spank fast and hard, no warmup. OTK and with my hand. I try to get it over with quickly and my point across.neither of us gets enjoyment from the experience, and I try to get us back to “us” as quickly as possible
by Jwalker
Thu Apr 25, 2019 9:13 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Quick intro
Replies: 24
Views: 2115

Re: Quick intro

Sounds like your husband either needs to resign himself to the fact that spankings aren’t working and either stop or up the intensity. When my wife gets argumentative about it, I threaten to get the wooden spoon. That’s what she got as a kid, and she immediately changes her tone.
by Jwalker
Wed Apr 24, 2019 6:09 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Quick intro
Replies: 24
Views: 2115

Re: Quick intro

That’s a funny story. My wife seems more docile and I wouldn’t spank for playful things, unless it was just a playful, soft one.i also don’t spank for some of the things people on the forum say they do. She doesn’t have chores, or rules etc. she spends what she wants, does what she wants etc, this i...
by Jwalker
Wed Apr 24, 2019 5:48 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Quick intro
Replies: 24
Views: 2115

Re: Quick intro

Thank you for the very good advice. I am taking it under consideration in trying to explain this better to her.

Full disclosure though: last night she went to bed with the red bottom she earned herself. She knew it was coming, and I wasn’t going to let it pass while we figured this out.
by Jwalker
Tue Apr 16, 2019 11:01 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Quick intro
Replies: 24
Views: 2115

Re: Quick intro

Yes, she has two of the “official” punishments. The first was 8 strokes for speeding. The second time was only 6, for using too much data for two months straight. I guess knowing the amount helps her, because even though it obviously hurt, she didn’t cry either time. We don’t really have an arrangem...
by Jwalker
Mon Apr 15, 2019 9:38 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Quick intro
Replies: 24
Views: 2115

Re: Quick intro

So I am unsure if I should post updates here or start a new thread. We talked quite a bit and she wanted to stop the spankings.she was ok with continuing our “maintenance” which is more ceremonial than anything else. She also agreed to more official type punishments, with a set number of strokes wit...