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by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:02 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking out of anger
Replies: 8
Views: 629

Re: Spanking out of anger

:) Hey everyone. We are not really in a DD relationship as most people on here are but spanking has recently become a large part of our lives. When my wife was angry and/or hurting, sHe would pester me until I snapped. When she did I would spank her. She isn’t enjoying it because she is in pain but ...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:01 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking out of anger
Replies: 8
Views: 629

Re: Spanking out of anger

:) Following up on what ML said. Punishment in general is about behavior change. You are trying to shift the risk/reward equation to discourage the behavior. Punishment should never be about you. It should always be about your wife, and her actions. If you find yourself angry because a rule was brok...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Thu Jul 11, 2019 6:50 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking out of anger
Replies: 8
Views: 629

Re: Spanking out of anger

Hey everyone. We are not really in a DD relationship as most people on here are but spanking has recently become a large part of our lives. When my wife was angry and/or hurting, sHe would pester me until I snapped. When she did I would spank her. She isn’t enjoying it because she is in pain but it...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Mon Jun 10, 2019 1:42 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 2458

Re: I don't know what to do

I’ve been trying to figure you out from your posts. Maybe I’ve misjudged you or perhaps you’re not the best at representing your situation. From this last post I think I might understand you in this instance: You don’t just struggle with a prankster attitude... your methods have a reason behind the...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Fri May 31, 2019 11:36 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 2458

Re: I don't know what to do

Glad you have a clean slate. I agree in general that the idea of DD and spanking should be something you both agree on. However, there are times when a husband will take charge and spank a wife who is misbehaving routinely. A lot of women would be happy to have a husband lead like that. But I under...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Thu May 30, 2019 5:14 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 2458

Re: I don't know what to do

Also meaning that I refuse to submit to something I didn't sign up for and if I did "submit", it would teach him that spankings are working on his terms. hope that makes sense.
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Thu May 30, 2019 4:49 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 2458

Re: I don't know what to do

I’ve been trying to figure you out from your posts. Maybe I’ve misjudged you or perhaps you’re not the best at representing your situation. From this last post I think I might understand you in this instance: You don’t just struggle with a prankster attitude... your methods have a reason behind the...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Mon May 27, 2019 11:58 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 2458

Re: I don't know what to do

Here I'll help you even further. These are ideas of ways to say the 3 options. I don't know your husband's name so I am going to call him Dan. 1. Dan, I love you and even though life is great in all other areas of our lives, I am not willing to try to work on expressing my frustrations and hurts in...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Mon May 27, 2019 11:35 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 2458

Re: I don't know what to do

You weren't figuring this out on your own. You've gotten a lot of advice. It's now time you apply the advice. Figure out which option you want to do, sit down with your husband, have a real conversation and work things out or don't and get a divorce. You're right. I have gotten lots of advice. Unfo...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Mon May 27, 2019 10:03 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 2458

Re: I don't know what to do

Three choices you have: 1. Get a divorce because he doesn't want your pranks and you don't want the spanks. 2. Deal with the spankings because you make him deal with your dumb childish pranks. 3. Stop the pranks. He'll stop the spankings. This is getting old. We have told you over and over again yo...