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by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Wed Jul 31, 2019 12:03 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hello from Canada
Replies: 7
Views: 1020

Re: Hello from Canada

I have been active on here for about a month now and figured I should probably get around to introducing myself / us. We've been together about two years and we just got married this past summer. This kind of a relationship is something that I have always wanted but didn't know there was a name for...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Wed Jul 31, 2019 11:47 am
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Chess
Replies: 11
Views: 633

Re: Chess

sweetie wrote:
Mon Jul 29, 2019 7:17 pm
Very random question, but does anybody on here play chess?
Yes! My son and I play on and off
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:02 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking out of anger
Replies: 15
Views: 2126

Re: Spanking out of anger

:) Hey everyone. We are not really in a DD relationship as most people on here are but spanking has recently become a large part of our lives. When my wife was angry and/or hurting, sHe would pester me until I snapped. When she did I would spank her. She isn’t enjoying it because she is in pain but ...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:01 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking out of anger
Replies: 15
Views: 2126

Re: Spanking out of anger

:) Following up on what ML said. Punishment in general is about behavior change. You are trying to shift the risk/reward equation to discourage the behavior. Punishment should never be about you. It should always be about your wife, and her actions. If you find yourself angry because a rule was brok...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Thu Jul 11, 2019 6:50 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking out of anger
Replies: 15
Views: 2126

Re: Spanking out of anger

Hey everyone. We are not really in a DD relationship as most people on here are but spanking has recently become a large part of our lives. When my wife was angry and/or hurting, sHe would pester me until I snapped. When she did I would spank her. She isn’t enjoying it because she is in pain but it...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Mon Jun 10, 2019 1:42 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 4625

Re: I don't know what to do

I’ve been trying to figure you out from your posts. Maybe I’ve misjudged you or perhaps you’re not the best at representing your situation. From this last post I think I might understand you in this instance: You don’t just struggle with a prankster attitude... your methods have a reason behind the...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Fri May 31, 2019 11:36 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 4625

Re: I don't know what to do

Glad you have a clean slate. I agree in general that the idea of DD and spanking should be something you both agree on. However, there are times when a husband will take charge and spank a wife who is misbehaving routinely. A lot of women would be happy to have a husband lead like that. But I under...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Thu May 30, 2019 5:14 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 4625

Re: I don't know what to do

Also meaning that I refuse to submit to something I didn't sign up for and if I did "submit", it would teach him that spankings are working on his terms. hope that makes sense.
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Thu May 30, 2019 4:49 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 4625

Re: I don't know what to do

I’ve been trying to figure you out from your posts. Maybe I’ve misjudged you or perhaps you’re not the best at representing your situation. From this last post I think I might understand you in this instance: You don’t just struggle with a prankster attitude... your methods have a reason behind the...
by girlzruleboyzdrool4u
Mon May 27, 2019 11:58 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 53
Views: 4625

Re: I don't know what to do

Here I'll help you even further. These are ideas of ways to say the 3 options. I don't know your husband's name so I am going to call him Dan. 1. Dan, I love you and even though life is great in all other areas of our lives, I am not willing to try to work on expressing my frustrations and hurts in...