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by Sam89
Sat Apr 04, 2020 5:12 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking, clothing and humiliation
Replies: 39
Views: 14330

Re: Spanking, clothing and humiliation

All spankings here are bare and M usually does it for me to put me in my place.
by Sam89
Sun Jul 28, 2019 7:54 pm
Forum: Politics
Topic: Male vs. Female Led DD
Replies: 46
Views: 11495

Re: Male vs. Female Led DD

I realise that this isn't a new message but I've only just found and read it. A lovely open post and I appreciate and respect your honesty. No need to be shy about rules and punishments. As you say, it works for you both and that's what matters. I am the (female) sub but I recognise your situation ...
by Sam89
Sat Mar 23, 2019 8:20 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Does the Sub have a say in what becomes a Rule?
Replies: 18
Views: 4710

Re: Does the Sub have a say in what becomes a Rule?

A good example is: She is not allowed to answer chat messages more often than once per hour before all tasks of the day are done without asking permission except during her lunch break. Oh ok I understand. I respect your decision for the rule but I understand why she wouldn't like that. I have time...
by Sam89
Sat Mar 23, 2019 3:29 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Does the Sub have a say in what becomes a Rule?
Replies: 18
Views: 4710

Re: Does the Sub have a say in what becomes a Rule?

Before I make a final decision I ask her about her opinion on a given topic. Like "Do you think a sub should always address her HoH as Sir?". After I know her opinion I make the final decision. There are situations where I have a different opinion and where I think something is useful that she does...
by Sam89
Sat Mar 23, 2019 3:19 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?
Replies: 44
Views: 12240

Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Yes a few people in our life know. M isn't shy anymore about disciplining me in front of some people but we do still keep it private from most people. She likes being open about it and I'm warming up to it. It's not as bad as I thought it would be at least for the people that know.
by Sam89
Sat Mar 16, 2019 5:47 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Best Friend, Drinks, Joking Around, and fun with DD
Replies: 26
Views: 5367

Re: Best Friend, Drinks, Joking Around, and fun with DD

Are you worried about her knowing you get disciplined? I would think discipline would at least be done in private where no one could see?
by Sam89
Wed Mar 13, 2019 9:18 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: For all members!!
Replies: 208
Views: 24735

Re: For all members!!

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by Sam89
Mon Mar 11, 2019 12:35 am
Forum: Politics
Topic: Male vs. Female Led DD
Replies: 46
Views: 11495

Re: Male vs. Female Led DD

This is a great discussion I wish I saw it sooner! I'm a man and my wife runs the ship. We don't like describing it as FLR because of the sex and women worshiping stuff we found online so we just say DD instead. We're both "dominant" and in the beginning we really tried to be equals. But we both wer...
by Sam89
Thu Mar 07, 2019 10:45 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Hidden Public Punishments
Replies: 25
Views: 12325

Re: Hidden Public Punishments

There is a blog post where Clint talking about a "silent spanking" (link below). This might be something that could work. He gives you a signal, you excuse yourself for a moment to the restroom, apply the cream and return. I am curious to see what others come up with. Phil04 https://domestic-discip...
by Sam89
Sun Mar 03, 2019 1:01 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Interference & public spankings
Replies: 75
Views: 34615

Re: Interference & public spankings

Never happened before but he says he would in a heartbeat if I needed it. He has no problem taking me to a bedroom of a friends house or pulling over somewhere remote-ish. So I’m pretty careful! Don’t want to test those waters. But I do get love taps to remind me I could be getting close. He would ...