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by Sam89
Sat Mar 23, 2019 8:20 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Does the Sub have a say in what becomes a Rule?
Replies: 20
Views: 2529

Re: Does the Sub have a say in what becomes a Rule?

A good example is: She is not allowed to answer chat messages more often than once per hour before all tasks of the day are done without asking permission except during her lunch break. Oh ok I understand. I respect your decision for the rule but I understand why she wouldn't like that. I have time...
by Sam89
Sat Mar 23, 2019 3:29 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Does the Sub have a say in what becomes a Rule?
Replies: 20
Views: 2529

Re: Does the Sub have a say in what becomes a Rule?

Before I make a final decision I ask her about her opinion on a given topic. Like "Do you think a sub should always address her HoH as Sir?". After I know her opinion I make the final decision. There are situations where I have a different opinion and where I think something is useful that she does...
by Sam89
Sat Mar 23, 2019 3:19 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?
Replies: 38
Views: 5343

Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Yes a few people in our life know. M isn't shy anymore about disciplining me in front of some people but we do still keep it private from most people. She likes being open about it and I'm warming up to it. It's not as bad as I thought it would be at least for the people that know.
by Sam89
Sat Mar 16, 2019 5:47 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Best Friend, Drinks, Joking Around, and fun with DD
Replies: 26
Views: 2367

Re: Best Friend, Drinks, Joking Around, and fun with DD

Are you worried about her knowing you get disciplined? I would think discipline would at least be done in private where no one could see?
by Sam89
Wed Mar 13, 2019 9:18 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: For all members!!
Replies: 54
Views: 3075

Re: For all members!!

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by Sam89
Mon Mar 11, 2019 12:35 am
Forum: Politics
Topic: Male vs. Female Led DD
Replies: 22
Views: 4232

Re: Male vs. Female Led DD

This is a great discussion I wish I saw it sooner! I'm a man and my wife runs the ship. We don't like describing it as FLR because of the sex and women worshiping stuff we found online so we just say DD instead. We're both "dominant" and in the beginning we really tried to be equals. But we both wer...
by Sam89
Thu Mar 07, 2019 10:45 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Hidden Public Punishments
Replies: 11
Views: 2581

Re: Hidden Public Punishments

There is a blog post where Clint talking about a "silent spanking" (link below). This might be something that could work. He gives you a signal, you excuse yourself for a moment to the restroom, apply the cream and return. I am curious to see what others come up with. Phil04 https://domestic-discip...
by Sam89
Sun Mar 03, 2019 1:01 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Interference & public spankings
Replies: 53
Views: 10461

Re: Interference & public spankings

Never happened before but he says he would in a heartbeat if I needed it. He has no problem taking me to a bedroom of a friends house or pulling over somewhere remote-ish. So I’m pretty careful! Don’t want to test those waters. But I do get love taps to remind me I could be getting close. He would ...
by Sam89
Sun Mar 03, 2019 12:52 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: How Does HOH Deal With A Smart Mouth/Attitude?
Replies: 58
Views: 11975

Re: How Does HOH Deal With A Smart Mouth/Attitude?

I got my mouth soaped yesterday for talking back. I didn't sleep great the night before and I was in a mood all day. She mostly left me alone since she knew I didn't sleep well. But when she told me I would have an early bedtime I snapped at her. I ended up her over knee and then in the corner with ...
by Sam89
Tue Feb 26, 2019 10:04 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: New to the site and lifestyle
Replies: 9
Views: 781

Re: New to the site and lifestyle

Welcome!