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by MrX
Wed Nov 25, 2020 12:04 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Punishment when pregnant
Replies: 23
Views: 6469

Re: Punishment when pregnant

I would say that I am successful 9 out of 10 times. (I will add the caveat - we've been doing DD for over 20 years, so I know my wife very well. Early in our marriage, I was probably only successful at stopping her attitude from escalating 1 out of 100 times). I'll add a couple recent examples in m...
by MrX
Wed Nov 25, 2020 10:11 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Punishment when pregnant
Replies: 23
Views: 6469

Re: Punishment when pregnant

Pregnant or not, if I saw that my wife's emotions, hormones, or general attitude were in a place that was likely to lead to her breaking a rule, I would do my best to stop it from escalating - whether that's sending her to time out for a bit, or to do some lines, or giving her an early bedtime. The...
by MrX
Fri Nov 20, 2020 7:39 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: New Girl
Replies: 12
Views: 1324

Re: New Girl

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by MrX
Thu Nov 19, 2020 12:16 pm
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Happy Birthdays on Here
Replies: 267
Views: 68291

Re: Happy Birthdays on Here

Well, don't leave us hanging .... which of you was correct? I was, of course! Actually I had the most amazing birthday since we've been married everything went real smoothly. But I happened to get punished on Monday for other reasons, hence why I spent three days with no screen time. Sadly... Nice ...
by MrX
Wed Nov 18, 2020 12:52 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 38
Views: 7325

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

I really appreciate your detailed ideas and responses. Especially being so new trying to navigate entering this lifestyle intentionally yet carefully has been an interesting balance . I’m hoping to talk to him tonight or tomorrow and I’ll post an update!! The balance that you speak of is key, and i...
by MrX
Tue Nov 17, 2020 5:28 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 38
Views: 7325

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

I suggested to him today to start with my attitude towards the kids. Sometimes I can get overwhelmed and snippy towards them when I know I shouldn’t. He’s corrected me verbally a few times during grumpy moods for my harsh response towards them. The goal being to be loving, kind, gentle and patient ...
by MrX
Tue Nov 17, 2020 3:29 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...
Replies: 38
Views: 7325

Re: I want to implement DD, a letter to my husband...

I think adding a couple of rules/goals or accountability areas would be our next step. He was very apprehensive about ‘changing our entire relationship’ by adding rules and giving him all of this responsibility. As you think through that list of proposed rules that you posted earlier, is there any ...
by MrX
Tue Nov 17, 2020 2:14 pm
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Happy Birthdays on Here
Replies: 267
Views: 68291

Re: Happy Birthdays on Here

AWE_1993 wrote:
Sun Nov 15, 2020 8:06 am
we're hosting a birthday party tonight and he doubts I'll manage to stay out of trouble in our first time hosting since we started DD.
A girl has been challenged! So catch me tonight on my best behavior since ever baby.
Well, don't leave us hanging .... which of you was correct?
by MrX
Sat Nov 14, 2020 5:19 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Practicing DD in a family home
Replies: 13
Views: 6566

Re: Practicing DD in a family home

Well, this is definitely a topic where I have some expertise to share - we have quite a few kids, ranging from diapers to drivers licenses, and we homeschool - so doing DD with kids around is just something we've had to figure out. Our current house is a large ranch-style house (sprawling one story ...
by MrX
Sat Nov 14, 2020 6:41 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: For all members!!
Replies: 335
Views: 80239

Re: For all members!!

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