Domestic Discipline Forum

Lol not nuts. Our Lab will hold a grudge for about 1/2 a day

Welcome.

Welcome! No safe word works best for me and for the same reasons too.

Thank you Rand E and Miras for recovering the articles. We have found them very helpful

I do have some restrictions mainly involving staying anonymous (unless given permission to give more info in PM). If I disrespected anyone I would be held accountable also. Mainly the opposite has been used for me. He has forced me to write a reflective post a few times as a punishment for my behavi...

I disagree with the folks here that say that your recent punishment was non-consensual. My wife and I found that consenting on a case-by-case basis just plain doesn't work. We agree to the arrangement, and part of that agreement is that we will submit without defiance to consequences for a rule bre...

My husband will correct me in public as needed. Usually that means a verbal warning or fairly recently he's just started counting to 3. Occasionally a swat. He's grabbed my elbow to pull aside for a talking to. I've had to sit on a bench or in the car. He also has had to spank me in the car or hote...

Welcome and good luck in your search

I also wanted to mention that “Surrendered Wife" by Laura Doyle has helped me. It doesn’t fully mention DD but there are a lot of great tips and insights into letting control go. I wish I would have read it when we first started DD. My husband likes the little changes I am making very much. He will ...

Welcome! I first mentioned DD (which I didn’t know was a thing) in terms of wanting accountability and a marriage from the 1950s tied in with maybe BDSM 🤣🤦‍♀️. So you’re already a step ahead! That was hard trying to figure out what it was I looking for and confused the mess out of my husband. We did...