Domestic Discipline Forum

I also wanted to mention that “Surrendered Wife" by Laura Doyle has helped me. It doesn’t fully mention DD but there are a lot of great tips and insights into letting control go. I wish I would have read it when we first started DD. My husband likes the little changes I am making very much. He will ...

Welcome! I first mentioned DD (which I didn’t know was a thing) in terms of wanting accountability and a marriage from the 1950s tied in with maybe BDSM 🤣🤦‍♀️. So you’re already a step ahead! That was hard trying to figure out what it was I looking for and confused the mess out of my husband. We did...

I will have to try that! Our Lab has been known to growl when even a warning swat is given. He even at times sits on me as “protection” . Luckily it doesn’t get that cold here so normally he goes outside.

Thanks for the update. I’m so sorry for your loss and the pain you are feeling. Your husband sounds like a great leader and I’m happy y’all got to the root of it. Hang in there and keep taking baby steps day by day.

I can feel the 'Stay put' in my stomach! My husband hasn't actually used that phrase...i think stay put would be more effective because, ugghh like I said, I can feel it and it feels like ooooh noooo, I messed up! Lol I don't know if I could survive being told to shut my mouth lol! I can't stop tal...

Hi all! I've looked at this site a few times and it has helped some times with my own relationship but I've been too scared to actually register... but I'm excited to be able to start communicating with others who share similar lifestyles! .... Not that I really have any new suggestions for you... ...

Welcome to the forum. I look forward to your perspective and experience.

Hangery is a real thing but I’m also not allowed that excuse lol. Sounds like he handled the situation well. I guess I'm not allowed that excuse either. Lol. Yea, I think you’re right PapaBear isn’t letting that one fly. Last time I started tipping towards hangery... Beast tossed a piece of bread a...

Happy Birthday to you and your wife, Nate

Hangery is a real thing but I’m also not allowed that excuse lol. Sounds like he handled the situation well.