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by Sassyclouds
Wed Jan 22, 2020 11:34 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Nature of Consent
Replies: 11
Views: 563

Re: Nature of Consent

This was a great thread. I think, very helpful to everyone. I love and trusted my husband completely. We were married almost 17 yrs with 2 kids, when he finally agreed to try DD. Unfortunately, in my case, non of that mattered. He changed. DD, D/s, BDSM, really changed my husband. DD is dangerous if...
by Sassyclouds
Mon Jan 20, 2020 2:36 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 45
Views: 1315

Re: Bra

I just want to say 2 words. Back pain. Wearing a bra helps prevent my back from hurting. To be told not to wear a bra and that I would be punished for wearing it, because of being disobedient, would break my heart. So, to the HOH asking this question, please talk to your wife, also her doctor, then ...
by Sassyclouds
Sun Jan 19, 2020 3:44 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 45
Views: 1315

Re: Bra

I do understand. Thank you. I guess, I was just stuck on the "no bra rule", not on "the importance of submitting to your HOH". It is an amazing feeling to submit to the man you love if he is deserving of that respect and obedience. But, if he takes advantage of the authority he has over you and hurt...
by Sassyclouds
Sun Jan 19, 2020 3:25 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hello
Replies: 5
Views: 183

Re: Hello

Hello 😊
by Sassyclouds
Sun Jan 19, 2020 9:51 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 45
Views: 1315

Re: Bra

Dear SassyClouds, I understand that you are going through a traumatic phase in your life. If you read my post completely, I condemned the behaviour of Smoothy20. The key points which you may feel problematic but which I believe strongly are: 1- My conceptualisation of DD is built on wedding vows an...
by Sassyclouds
Sun Jan 19, 2020 6:21 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 45
Views: 1315

Re: Bra

I was so sad to read some of what DisciplinedWife wrote, such as, "I WOULD SUBMIT TO HIS EVER INCREASING PUNISHMENTS TIL I COULD MAKE HIM SEE THE CORRECT PATH. I would pray to God to give me the strength to bear the pain and the wisdom to convince him about his mistakes". We are talking about her HO...
by Sassyclouds
Sat Jan 18, 2020 12:37 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 45
Views: 1315

Re: Bra

If my HoH attempted a rule like this, not only would I immediately and openly defy it, if he attempted to punish me for wearing a bra, he would have one hell of a fight on his hands. This is egocentric control, not loving DD. I agree!! I said the same thing. I would NEVER let my HOH (when I had one...
by Sassyclouds
Sat Jan 18, 2020 11:57 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 45
Views: 1315

Re: Bra

I just want to say that when I started reading this thread, I did not expect so much helpful insight over the bra-no bra issue! I really appreciate the comments from Phil, and Lauren, Candace, Olivia, and others. It is very educational! Clearly, "just cuz I can" rules are an abuse of authority by a...
by Sassyclouds
Sat Jan 18, 2020 12:42 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 45
Views: 1315

Re: Bra

I agree with Phil 😊 Except, when he said, "There is also the issue of her open disobedience" When it comes to being told to not wear a bra and no reason is given, plus if it hurts her to not wear a bra (like me), then I would never obey that "rule". She shouldn't either. When you wrote that, given ...
by Sassyclouds
Fri Jan 17, 2020 11:28 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 45
Views: 1315

Re: Bra

I agree with Phil 😊 Except, when he said, "There is also the issue of her open disobedience" When it comes to being told to not wear a bra and no reason is given, plus if it hurts her to not wear a bra (like me), then I would never obey that "rule". She shouldn't either. When you wrote that, given t...