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by SurrealSD
Thu Jan 31, 2019 9:15 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: The submissive partner’s perspective: “What if the HoH breaks a rule?”
Replies: 6
Views: 912

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: The submissive partner’s perspective: “What if the HoH breaks a rule?”

This is a pretty timely topic as D broke a pretty major rule this weekend. I was upset and having a hard time forgiving and forgetting. He felt guilty about it. We talked about the fact that, if the situation were reversed, he would be able to assign a punishment that would clear the air, wipe the ...
by SurrealSD
Thu Jan 31, 2019 5:08 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: The submissive partner’s perspective: “What if the HoH breaks a rule?”
Replies: 6
Views: 912

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: The submissive partner’s perspective: “What if the HoH breaks a rule?”

This is a pretty timely topic as D broke a pretty major rule this weekend. I was upset and having a hard time forgiving and forgetting. He felt guilty about it. We talked about the fact that, if the situation were reversed, he would be able to assign a punishment that would clear the air, wipe the s...
by SurrealSD
Thu Jan 24, 2019 6:40 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: He said "No"
Replies: 16
Views: 3194

Re: He said "No"

AddyJane wrote:
Thu Jan 24, 2019 11:21 am

Maybe we should start a general DD and Dating advice thread?
Miras started one but it didn't get much traffic. I'll see if I can find it when I get to my laptop.
by SurrealSD
Thu Jan 24, 2019 10:17 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: He said "No"
Replies: 16
Views: 3194

Re: He said "No"

Guys, this is from August and she's no longer dating this guy.
by SurrealSD
Wed Jan 16, 2019 11:06 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: His Belt + My Hairbrush = the Essence of DD
Replies: 18
Views: 6645

Re: His Belt + My Hairbrush = the Essence of DD

right now wrote:
Wed Jan 16, 2019 11:05 pm
Really. I don't know what later happened.
That's because you're replying to every single thread in the forum without bothering to get to know anyone first.
by SurrealSD
Wed Jan 16, 2019 4:37 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Brand New and Scared Shitless
Replies: 26
Views: 3804

Re: Brand New and Scared Shitless

I find the idea of asking to be disciplined easier than asking for aftercare ... especially if the sub is the one who introduced DD. I mean .. how this conversation will go? "Hey honey.. I want you to punish me then comfort me afterwards" It makes sense only in my head. You talk it out long before ...
by SurrealSD
Thu Jan 03, 2019 8:31 pm
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Literature
Replies: 49
Views: 5618

Re: Literature

I Just finished A Plague of Giants, an epic fantasy novel by Kevin Hearne. It's set to be the first in a trilogy. Excellent world-building fantasy novel! If you enjoy books like Lord of the Rings or A Song of Ice and Fire, you should check it out.
by SurrealSD
Mon Dec 31, 2018 7:46 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: How do you deal with 'over the top' discipline?
Replies: 13
Views: 3213

Re: How do you deal with 'over the top' discipline?

I have a couple of thoughts about what you wrote, DesertRose. 1) You can think whatever you want to think in your own head. I don't care what people think of my lifestyle as long as they keep it to themselves. So as long as we're just talking about what goes on in your mind. . . . you can think or j...
by SurrealSD
Mon Dec 31, 2018 6:35 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Just Starting Out
Replies: 12
Views: 1555

Re: Just Starting Out

StarGirl wrote:
Mon Dec 31, 2018 6:11 pm
I'm honestly feeling kind of empty inside. The first twenty-four hours I felt vulnerable, and just wanted him to comfort me, but he didn't. He was cold where I just wanted a hug.
Did you tell him you needed hugs and comfort?
by SurrealSD
Fri Dec 28, 2018 6:45 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Just Starting Out
Replies: 12
Views: 1555

Re: Just Starting Out

Welcome StarGirl! Thanks for sharing your story! Hopefully you and your husband are looking around and learning. There's a lot to learn here and some great folks to learn from. I've learned there are as many ways to do DD as there are couples who do it, and we all have to figure out what works for u...