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by Phil04
Thu Jan 23, 2020 9:43 am
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Staying on Topic
Replies: 6
Views: 156

Re: Staying on Topic

Also, I just wanted to mention that I recently had to evict a couple of raccoons from the attic of my house. It's amazing how these pests can figure out and exploit seemingly impassable entry points. You know what I mean? It's like ..... ....................... JUST TEASING! :P Oh I hate raccoons. ...
by Phil04
Wed Jan 22, 2020 11:48 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Nature of Consent
Replies: 11
Views: 514

Re: Nature of Consent

This was a great thread. I think, very helpful to everyone. I love and trusted my husband completely. We were married almost 17 yrs with 2 kids, when he finally agreed to try DD. Unfortunately, in my case, non of that mattered. He changed. DD, D/s, BDSM, really changed my husband. DD is dangerous i...
by Phil04
Tue Jan 21, 2020 7:23 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Intro from CA
Replies: 10
Views: 242

Re: Intro from CA

We do have a safe word during spankings. It means "pause." It allows My_Love to catch her breathe during a spanking. It does not cut the punishment short.

Phil
by Phil04
Mon Jan 20, 2020 12:14 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Use of restraints
Replies: 6
Views: 244

Re: Use of restraints

We have not because moving or reaching back is not an issue for My_Love. I have no problem with the concept, and would not hesitate to use restraints if they were needed.

Phil
by Phil04
Sun Jan 19, 2020 7:00 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 45
Views: 1211

Re: Bra

C Anderson, I disagree with your statement that there is no such thing as blanket consent. A blanket consent can be given. It can also be withdrawn. However, once it is given, it is in place until it is withdrawn. So in the case of the TiH having to service the HoH, no, I don't believe that is sexua...
by Phil04
Sat Jan 18, 2020 12:31 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 45
Views: 1211

Re: Bra

I agree with Phil 😊 Except, when he said, "There is also the issue of her open disobedience" When it comes to being told to not wear a bra and no reason is given, plus if it hurts her to not wear a bra (like me), then I would never obey that "rule". She shouldn't either. When you wrote that, given ...
by Phil04
Fri Jan 17, 2020 11:19 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 45
Views: 1211

Re: Bra

As an HOH I see so much in this, I don't know where to start. It appears that you are fairly new to the DD life-style. As such I recommend focusing on meaningful rules. Rules that both parties will benefit from. This will build trust and respect between you. Once that trust is in place, then an occa...
by Phil04
Thu Jan 16, 2020 3:50 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: New discipline idea?
Replies: 15
Views: 609

Re: New discipline idea?

Smoothy, I know the question was not aimed at me, but hope you (and Lauren) don't mind if I add my perspective. As an HOH, I have given My_Love a bed time. This is usually a punishment for her staying up to late the night before, or just because she is tired, and I think she could benefit from extra...
by Phil04
Thu Jan 09, 2020 1:38 pm
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Want to talk?
Replies: 26
Views: 691

Re: Want to talk?

Sassyclouds, If this guy is local to your town and your circle of friends than there could be social reasons for him to want to wait, to avoid rumors. It could also that aside from romance, his sees this moving into a disciplinarian type relationship and does not want to be spanking another man's wi...
by Phil04
Thu Jan 02, 2020 9:14 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Refusal To submit To A Spanking - Anyone?
Replies: 17
Views: 1462

Re: Refusal To submit To A Spanking - Anyone?

SpankedWife, What to start? As an HOH, I probably would have handled it differently, but very much (based on what you said) would have arrived at the same outcome. In our house discipline sessions almost always start with a conversation. What is your side of the story? What were you thinking? Is the...