Domestic Discipline Forum

My husband wasn't natural HOH either. He was also fearful of taking things too far at the beginning and so unsure that he wouldn't spank me at all. Not even for things I know I should have gotten in trouble for. It upset him so much the first time he ever spanked me to tears. He cried, too. But once...

A few years back I had to make a formal apology on a post once in another forum because I broke a rule. And admit I was spanked for it and grounded for a while.

I know your right. I don't want to think about him or remember the good times, like when we had our first date or our kids were born,etc. I made a friend here. He helped me forget. He was sweet and interesting to talk to, but he doesn't believe I only want to be friends. He also thinks I should wai...

Lauren, that is such a true and wonderful testament to God's love, and Grace. Thank you for sharing that. It puts things in a different perspective. Sassyclouds, I think your ex leaving gave God the oppurtunity to show you how toxic and poisonous your ex is. I think he has much greater plans for you...

wow! thank you Terri. that last paragraph is key!!!! "submit" is a verb. We are supposed to willingly submit, not just be forced into it. We're supposed to change our thinking to allow us to submit. That is the feeling of bliss that comes from removing the ego. However, to get there our erratic emo...

Miras wrote: ↑

Thu Nov 21, 2019 3:52 pm

I need to find a therapist open enough to certain unorthodox advices.

Good luck. Let me know when you find one. I always wanted a therapist that I could discuss every aspect of my life with including DD and it not be seen as something bad or abusive. But as a possible therapy tool.

Beauty wrote: ↑

Fri Nov 22, 2019 5:03 pm

Hangery is a real thing but I’m also not allowed that excuse lol. Sounds like he handled the situation well.

I guess I'm not allowed that excuse either. Lol.

This is how OCD I am... I can't get past him having you put everything back in the cart. What was the purpose of that? Because when I actually really started paying attention, I realized it was an elderly lady with a helper and they weren't done unloading her cart. They still needed the space on th...

Hi Emily. I know I'm a little late welcoming you to the forum. As you can already see this is a place full of wonderful people. My husband was hesitant when when I brought it up to him, too. But he's pretty good at tightening the reigns when he feels he needs to. Anyway, it's nice to have you on her...

Goldilocks, Yes, you probably would have got a spanking from me either at home or maybe even in the parking lot. But I am impressed with the way he handled it in the store. Very good,,very good indeed. Yes. it had to be embarrassing, but sometimes that is what is needed to get through to us. Nate B...