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by DesertRose
Wed Jan 22, 2020 4:45 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Nature of Consent
Replies: 12
Views: 618

Re: Nature of Consent

This was a great thread. I think, very helpful to everyone. I love and trusted my husband completely. We were married almost 17 yrs with 2 kids, when he finally agreed to try DD. Unfortunately, in my case, non of that mattered. He changed. DD, D/s, BDSM, really changed my husband. DD is dangerous i...
by DesertRose
Sun Jan 19, 2020 11:52 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: New discipline idea?
Replies: 15
Views: 726

Re: New discipline idea?

I have a bedtime as a rule. Not as a punishment. It's either 11 or 11:30. I don't even remember anymore! I try going to bed around 10 or 10:30. Whenever my 10 month old will finally go to sleep. The rule is laxed if any of my kids are still up. My husband goes to bed with our middle daughter around...
by DesertRose
Wed Jan 01, 2020 3:38 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Struggle with power loss
Replies: 25
Views: 1919

Re: Struggle with power loss

Ross wrote:
Sat Dec 28, 2019 10:58 pm
Good to hear you say so, and very good to know what a caring and concerned community this is!
This is %100 true.
by DesertRose
Tue Dec 31, 2019 6:53 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: New gentleman on the forum
Replies: 9
Views: 692

Re: New gentleman on the forum

All the best to all of you ;)
by DesertRose
Wed Dec 25, 2019 12:40 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: How Does HOH Deal With A Smart Mouth/Attitude?
Replies: 69
Views: 21866

Re: How Does HOH Deal With A Smart Mouth/Attitude?

Olivia wrote:
Fri Dec 20, 2019 4:53 pm
One time I swore at him and he told me if I ever do that again he'd get the soap :shock: I haven't done it again
This threat would shot me up as well :lol:
by DesertRose
Wed Dec 18, 2019 5:59 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Time Limit
Replies: 19
Views: 1150

Re: Time Limit

Lauren wrote:
Wed Dec 18, 2019 5:15 pm
I asked because for us after about a week it is pointless. It does not have the same effect.
Yes, I agree.
But it also depends on the broken rule itself I guess.
by DesertRose
Wed Dec 18, 2019 4:21 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Time Limit
Replies: 19
Views: 1150

Re: Time Limit

Do delayed punishments have the same effect? Maybe with time a broken rule wouldn't be felt that big of a deal.
by DesertRose
Wed Dec 18, 2019 1:28 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Rest stops and attitude...
Replies: 19
Views: 13623

Re: Rest stops and attitude...

I was just spanked thoroughly in a public parking lot this past Sunday. It was my first time like this. Two things came out it for me. 1. He told me to pull my pants down and bend over his lap. Despite my embarrassment I did it. He said he was proud of me for not resisting and submitting willingly....
by DesertRose
Sun Dec 15, 2019 9:47 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Depression
Replies: 24
Views: 1311

Re: Depression

It makes sense that spanking is helpful to treat depression.. but it is temporary, maybe it is better to see a therapist. Best luck to you.
by DesertRose
Thu Dec 12, 2019 3:20 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Struggle with power loss
Replies: 25
Views: 1919

Re: Struggle with power loss

You don't live DD in the "formal" sense. It is just a situation you found yourself in ... actually it is more of an old-school when husbands didn't have to take their wives permission to spank them. I think it is better to focus on improving your behavior instead of rebelling against your husband's ...