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by Duncandeedee1
Sun Jul 22, 2018 5:29 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Newbie with a red hiney
Replies: 11
Views: 4171

Re: Newbie with a red hiney

My advice even though I'm a novice: 1) Do your research. There's lots of very different ways DD is used. Some are very sexual, some are religion based, some are relationship based like this one. 2) Talk to your HoH. 3) Do boot camp as a trial to see if you can hang with it. It's not for the faint of...
by Duncandeedee1
Sun Jul 22, 2018 6:20 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Newbie with a red hiney
Replies: 11
Views: 4171

Re: Newbie with a red hiney

Everything is going pretty well with "boot camp." We've realized the belt is a pretty harsh implement for just starting off, so, HoH uses his hand for the warm up and a rubber spatula for at least half of the beginner spanking now. This has helped a lot. It had gotten where I couldn't sit down. I re...
by Duncandeedee1
Sat Jul 21, 2018 5:50 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Newbie with a red hiney
Replies: 11
Views: 4171

Re: Newbie with a red hiney

He does encourage me often! He's often given me specific examples of why he loves me (like, " I love because you help your aunt with her yard. That shoes your compassion for others." And so on. He compliments me daily. He's a wonderful husband and deserves, now commands, my submission. I guess my tr...
by Duncandeedee1
Fri Jul 20, 2018 10:28 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Newbie with a red hiney
Replies: 11
Views: 4171

Re: Newbie with a red hiney

Thanks, I don't have a lot of experience with the DD lifestyle. I'm sure lots of questions will arise as HoH and I continue this journey. We've gone so long without my unsubmissiveness in check. It's hard to change and I think my wavering is my auto-pilot way of trying to flee from change.
by Duncandeedee1
Fri Jul 20, 2018 9:05 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Newbie with a red hiney
Replies: 11
Views: 4171

Re: Newbie with a red hiney

Thanks, everyone for the encouragement. I enjoy this forum because I feel like I'm not alone. Only a week and a half left...I can do this!
by Duncandeedee1
Fri Jul 20, 2018 4:38 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Newbie with a red hiney
Replies: 11
Views: 4171

Newbie with a red hiney

So, some background. We've been married for 10+ years. I've always had issues with submission and my HOH has always, therefore, had issues with leading our home. So, we recently began our journey of domestic discipline. We sat down and made a list of what he sees as a submissive wife, what I think i...