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by Rand E
Thu May 06, 2021 9:14 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline Blog: How to prevent and handle bruises and marks from Spanking
Replies: 15
Views: 2834

Re: Domestic Discipline Blog: How to prevent and handle bruises and marks from Spanking

There is no way to prevent the bruising except to NOT spank. So either accept the bruising, don't earn a spanking or use alternative punishments. It's that simple. Kinda goes against the post though.... ‘If marking/bruising occurs after a spanking, then something within the spanking itself was done...
by Rand E
Thu May 06, 2021 8:50 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline Blog: How to prevent and handle bruises and marks from Spanking
Replies: 15
Views: 2834

Re: Domestic Discipline Blog: How to prevent and handle bruises and marks from Spanking

Summer wrote:
Thu May 06, 2021 6:00 pm
Do hand spankings typically cause bruises and blisters or is it more likely with implements?
Yes. They do. When I try to spank my wife's resilient bottom, my hand gets bruised. :P
by Rand E
Thu May 06, 2021 8:47 pm
Forum: Politics
Topic: What are your political views?
Replies: 18
Views: 1171

Re: What are your political views?

ColdAir wrote:
Thu May 06, 2021 6:41 pm
I should probably do a post on my favorite political discussion forum about my DD or non DD leanings.
I say in jest.
What are you trying to do? Start an uproar?
by Rand E
Thu May 06, 2021 8:46 pm
Forum: Politics
Topic: What are your political views?
Replies: 18
Views: 1171

Re: What are your political views?

This is an interesting topic. I believe that politics and religion play a massive part in life outside of DD. However, I would prefer to think that in today's society and culture of equality etc some people just like an alpha male to be an alpha male and a woman to be submissive to a man and be tak...
by Rand E
Mon Apr 26, 2021 11:34 pm
Forum: Politics
Topic: What are your political views?
Replies: 18
Views: 1171

Re: What are your political views?

This is an interesting topic. I believe that politics and religion play a massive part in life outside of DD. However, I would prefer to think that in today's society and culture of equality etc some people just like an alpha male to be an alpha male and a woman to be submissive to a man and be tak...
by Rand E
Sun Apr 25, 2021 3:40 am
Forum: Politics
Topic: What are your political views?
Replies: 18
Views: 1171

Re: What are your political views?

I just want to throw out a practical consideration (or caution) to everybody on this topic. I can see no reason why being engaged in a DD marriage or LTR implies a particular political orientation. We have a common cause here that is specific to domestic discipline. I realize we come from varying po...
by Rand E
Sun Apr 25, 2021 3:31 am
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline Blog: How to prevent and handle bruises and marks from Spanking
Replies: 15
Views: 2834

Re: Domestic Discipline Blog: How to prevent and handle bruises and marks from Spanking

My wife and I have the occasional discipline session with serious use of the big oak wooden paddle. Guess what folks. It bruises like crazy. So, my wife and I understand that it's just part of the deal. Not to mention, a sore behind the next day is definitely positive reinforcement. If you know some...
by Rand E
Sat Apr 03, 2021 12:59 am
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Happy Birthdays on Here
Replies: 265
Views: 64632

Re: Happy Birthdays on Here

Lauren wrote:
Wed Mar 31, 2021 1:05 am
Happy Birthday Rand E!!!
Ugh. Another year older.

But thanks for the positive sentiment. :)
by Rand E
Sat Mar 06, 2021 11:56 pm
Forum: Politics
Topic: What are your political views?
Replies: 18
Views: 1171

Re: What are your political views?

I would say that there is a common, perhaps predominant, Christian variety of DD, but I also think there are many variations out there. My wife and I are Jewish, and we practice cooperative DD, and I know that is definitely not that common. The opponents of DD range from prudish right-wing conservat...
by Rand E
Sat Mar 06, 2021 11:39 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Asking for it harder- tips?
Replies: 5
Views: 2614

Re: Asking for it harder- tips?

What are you nervous about? That he will say no? That you will get more than you bargained for? Or just difficult to talk about the subject? Bottom line is that you are the best judge of what you need, and a considerate loving spouse will want to listen to you and help you with what you genuinely ne...