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by Rand E
Sat Feb 16, 2019 12:10 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Let’s clear things up shall we??
Replies: 18
Views: 2048

Re: Let’s clear things up shall we??

Choose the people you want to converse with here, who show courtesy and respect. I think there are many of them here. The rest - they're just a lot of meaningless comments from the peanut gallery.
by Rand E
Fri Feb 15, 2019 11:58 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Concerns about this lifestyle
Replies: 7
Views: 1056

Re: Concerns about this lifestyle

My wife and I do not practice the DD lifestyle. However, we have been spankos throughout our 25 year marriage. Last year, we stumbled, for lack of a better word, into disciplinary spanking - actual corporal punishment, not just fun-and-games. We have a relatively short list of major transgressions t...
by Rand E
Tue Nov 27, 2018 12:31 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Nothing has changed
Replies: 16
Views: 2260

Re: Nothing has changed

Have you ever done anything that your spouse felt really deserved corporal punishment? That made him really want to punish you? Earlier this year, my wife pulled a stunt that had me so pissed, I spanked the hell out of her for it. I had spanked her plenty times before, always bedroom hanky-panky. Bu...
by Rand E
Tue Nov 20, 2018 10:04 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Brand New and Scared Shitless
Replies: 26
Views: 2497

Re: Brand New and Scared Shitless

Just to add in, it can also cause nervousness with the Hoh too. Even after years of erotic spankings, it was a totally different experience preparing to give a punishment spanking. Nate I hear that! My wife and I have had a spanking relationship for over 25 years, but only this year did it actually...
by Rand E
Mon Nov 19, 2018 11:15 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: New punishment
Replies: 42
Views: 11748

Re: New punishment

The difference is that a DD couple might want to make love because they have released the guilt and tension that caused the punishment and are once again feeling close and connected. It’s all done in love. A BSDM couple might want to be intimate because the giver or receiver of punishment (or both)...
by Rand E
Mon Nov 19, 2018 10:54 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 55
Views: 7871

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

Did you and your husband practice with the cane a bit first? You gotta watch out with those things. It's easy to go over the line without realizing what's happening. My wife and I retired the cane to the closet quite a while back. From the sound of your experience, that might be the way to go. Lots ...
by Rand E
Sun Oct 21, 2018 1:27 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: New punishment
Replies: 42
Views: 11748

Re: New punishment

Anything involving the breasts just sounds like S&M to me. If that's what you are into, that's fine, but it doesn't sound like that's what you are into, and more suitable for erotic purposes in any case, but off-the-mark as a method of discipline. I would stick to spanking for discipline - the butt ...
by Rand E
Sun Oct 21, 2018 1:10 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: New punishment
Replies: 42
Views: 11748

Re: New punishment

Just curious, if you don't mind my asking, but do you ever spank your husband? Or do you follow a pure dom/sub structure on discipline? I know that's the model in this particular forum, whether it be DD or CDD. But unless you are some kind of beyond-perfect human being, at some point, your inner bra...
by Rand E
Thu Aug 30, 2018 11:36 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: City Limits of Painsville
Replies: 28
Views: 3742

Re: City Limits of Painsville

If you are thinking about the style of domestic discipline practiced by the couples on this site, I have to defer to them for advice on that topic. DD is a real lifestyle, not just a sexual practice (although you can probably see from the various posts here that sexuality is inextricably tied up in ...
by Rand E
Tue Jul 24, 2018 4:13 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: City Limits of Painsville
Replies: 28
Views: 3742

Re: City Limits of Painsville

Yup. Those buns sure get tougher over time. I noticed I can go to town with the leather paddle on my wife, but her reactions are much more subdued. The initial impact is not as intense, even if the long-term burn is. It's like "where'd the initial sting go?" Funny you should mention the cane. I've b...