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by Rand E
Mon Oct 14, 2019 3:04 am
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Blog temporarily deactivated
Replies: 14
Views: 1773

Re: Blog temporarily deactivated

The Blogs were for the general public to read and learn. The Forum is private, for members only. The blogs were added to our forum for interaction between us members. Now I'm totally confused. The blogs are for the general public? Or for interaction of the members? Do the members post in the blogs?...
by Rand E
Mon Oct 14, 2019 1:36 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: When do things feel real?
Replies: 20
Views: 2675

Re: When do things feel real?

The leather paddle she used at the start finally broke a few years ago. It probably should be bronzed and mounted. She uses a hairbrush for warmup and favors a leather belt for the heavy lifting. Her finishing move will always be the strap. She has two now... a long rubber one and a folded leather ...
by Rand E
Sun Oct 13, 2019 12:39 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Any couples engaged in cooperative DD arrangement?
Replies: 6
Views: 963

Re: Any couples engaged in cooperative DD arrangement?

Hello, Rand E!! Are you in the UK? My husband and I just became members here today, and then I ran across your post. I've asked the same question forever. I am the HoH in our DD relationship, and I give him regular training spankings... and punishments when he violates a boundary. But we found seve...
by Rand E
Sun Oct 13, 2019 12:24 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: When do things feel real?
Replies: 20
Views: 2675

Re: When do things feel real?

Thanks for reviving this thread, Rand E . StrapEffect and I wanted something real from the start... We just didn't know how to define real in the lifestyle we were seeking. It took weeks of looking at books and articles... countless hours of discussion... and letter writing... followed by months of...
by Rand E
Sun Oct 13, 2019 12:08 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking out of anger
Replies: 16
Views: 2314

Re: Spanking out of anger

For me, the effectiveness of a spanking is just as much about the humbling effect as it is the pain. Perhaps making the punishment less impulsive and more ritualistic would help? I’m sometimes crying before I go over my HoH’s knee. I usually stand in the corner before the spanking. If implements ar...
by Rand E
Sat Oct 12, 2019 4:57 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Blog temporarily deactivated
Replies: 14
Views: 1773

Re: Blog temporarily deactivated

Dear all, we decided to shut down the blog temporarily. This will not affect the forum! The forum will be up as always. Amongst the reasons for this was a steadily decreasing number of users and a lot of spam in the comments. We might reopen it in the future, but for now, the site is offline. I hav...
by Rand E
Sat Oct 12, 2019 12:28 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: What are some things you didn’t know until you started DD?
Replies: 20
Views: 2973

Re: What are some things you didn’t know until you started DD?

I already replied with my side/view but it also opened up a constructive conversation with beast and I. He had a lot of good points that helped me with his perspective (he’s way better at verbal conversation and I’m better at expressing in writing). He gave permission that I could share at least th...
by Rand E
Fri Oct 11, 2019 10:10 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: When do things feel real?
Replies: 20
Views: 2675

Re: When do things feel real?

I know this is a way old post, but I just came across it and had to respond. My wife and I have been spankos for our entire 25+ year marriage. We did a lot of role-playing spanking activities, but in the end, it's all just fantasy, right? Last year, my wife and I started a cooperative DD arrangement...
by Rand E
Fri Oct 11, 2019 9:50 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: What are some things you didn’t know until you started DD?
Replies: 20
Views: 2973

Re: What are some things you didn’t know until you started DD?

First, and most important, it was the way that DD resolved the issues that led each time to the discipline. Back in the day, these would have been drag-out knock-down emotionally abusive fights and arguments. not to mention the emotionally brutal aftermath. After all the years of conflict with my wi...
by Rand E
Fri Oct 11, 2019 8:57 pm
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Happy Birthdays on Here
Replies: 110
Views: 6871

Re: Happy Birthdays on Here

Happy Birthday SweetPea. Wishing you a nice birthday spanking. :)