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by Rand E
Tue Jan 28, 2020 9:50 pm
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Scleroderma update
Replies: 18
Views: 657

Re: Scleroderma update

KrystalA wrote:
Tue Jan 28, 2020 2:40 pm
February 5th I will see tbe cardiologist. We will be requesting a stress test as well. Fingers crossed.
Krystal, This must be so stressful for you, not knowing. I sure hope Feb 5th comes quickly and you get some good news. .
by Rand E
Sun Jan 26, 2020 12:55 am
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: What if a woman was unjustly disciplined?
Replies: 6
Views: 447

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: What if a woman was unjustly disciplined?

She should smile and take it. Do you smile when you're getting paddled? If so, your HoH isn't doing it right. :? I was being sarcastic. Well, I was told to be more positive. I have read many times that the TIH is suppose to submit to being punished and respectfully discuss it with their HOH after. ...
by Rand E
Sat Jan 25, 2020 10:07 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: What if a woman was unjustly disciplined?
Replies: 6
Views: 447

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: What if a woman was unjustly disciplined?

Sassyclouds wrote:
Sat Jan 25, 2020 7:34 pm
She should smile and take it.
Do you smile when you're getting paddled? If so, your HoH isn't doing it right. :?
by Rand E
Sat Jan 25, 2020 6:39 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Use of restraints
Replies: 8
Views: 609

Re: Use of restraints

Restraints are not part of our normal routine nowadays. But, we definitely have tried them out. Can be lots of fun we had a full out bench for awhile. It is just a pain to get them out and put them on. I also like to hold position. It challenges me. It took me a long time to do it well and it just ...
by Rand E
Thu Jan 23, 2020 11:17 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Staying on Topic
Replies: 6
Views: 250

Re: Staying on Topic

Oh oh. Better cool it. Any minute now we're going to get PMs from Lauren scolding us all for hijacking her thread with raccoons. Especially me. :P
by Rand E
Wed Jan 22, 2020 10:16 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Staying on Topic
Replies: 6
Views: 250

Re: Staying on Topic

Hey Everyone, There has been a lot of going off topic lately. A lot of repeating oneself. KrystalA and I ask that everyone stay on the topic of the thread. If something that is said reminds you of something else or gives you an idea please start a new thread or add it to the appropriate existing th...
by Rand E
Wed Jan 22, 2020 7:22 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Nature of Consent
Replies: 12
Views: 721

Re: Nature of Consent

It is perfectly fine to leave a relationship for whatever reason, be it lack of sex or too hard punishment. It’s a lot about how this is conducted. And obviously it is ok to talk about your need and wants. Example, I am not happy in our relationship because there is too little intimacy. Is there an...
by Rand E
Wed Jan 22, 2020 12:35 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Nature of Consent
Replies: 12
Views: 721

Re: Nature of Consent

Prior to DD, when I spanked my wife, or vice-versa, for erotic purposes, we were operating under a case-by-case consent, in that, it had to be clear that we were both up for it before it would happen. In effect, it was no different than having sex. You both have to be in the mood or it ain't going t...
by Rand E
Wed Jan 22, 2020 12:17 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Nature of Consent
Replies: 12
Views: 721

Re: Nature of Consent

DisciplinedWife, I'm sure you were smart enough not to marry someone who would turn into an abuser in the first place. You appear to be a very religious woman, and I would assume your husband is also therefore? I can't imagine him asking something too outlandish to be Contradictory to Gods Word. Ri...
by Rand E
Tue Jan 21, 2020 11:56 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Nature of Consent
Replies: 12
Views: 721

Re: Nature of Consent

This is such a interesting subject. And I think it is one that should be revisited every now and then. Because without consent, this is abuse. To me consent is only valid if it is given willingly and freely by someone who understands the fully what it entails. I also believe that this will look dif...