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by Rand E
Sun Dec 08, 2019 12:04 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan
Replies: 28
Views: 3283

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

I'd say we're about 60/40, ish?... my skills/ personality are obviously different than his and we just kind of do what makes sense for us.... so, like I said before, I can be very vocal with expressing what I want or my opinion on matters for the family or for whatever (and he shares his with me) b...
by Rand E
Sun Dec 08, 2019 11:23 am
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan
Replies: 28
Views: 3283

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

I'd say we're about 60/40, ish?... my skills/ personality are obviously different than his and we just kind of do what makes sense for us.... so, like I said before, I can be very vocal with expressing what I want or my opinion on matters for the family or for whatever (and he shares his with me) b...
by Rand E
Fri Dec 06, 2019 12:22 am
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan
Replies: 28
Views: 3283

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

Miras wrote:
Thu Dec 05, 2019 1:28 am
KrystalA wrote:
Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:35 pm
I dont understand how or why there is a need for SJW title in the Spensor Plan. Can anyone help explain this?
It was just a joke... Becouse of t´s emphasis on fairness.
Or maybe SJW refers to that disciplinarian of great renown, Spanky J. Whoopin, that I read about somewhere or other. :P
by Rand E
Thu Dec 05, 2019 7:22 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan
Replies: 28
Views: 3283

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

I think one possible interpretation of The Spencer Spanking Plan is the situation when DD is practiced .... by SJW. The SJW folks I have encountered are some of the most humorless thin-skinned closed-minded zealots I have ever met. I live in Los Angeles, so, despite my best efforts, I routinely enc...
by Rand E
Thu Dec 05, 2019 6:55 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan
Replies: 28
Views: 3283

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

Rand E, I hope you didn't take any offense by my post, it certainly wasn't my intention!... but it's difficult to tell sometimes when you're just reading something and you can't hear the tone so just to be safe I didn't mean any disrespect to the arrangement you and your wife share. I'm sure the po...
by Rand E
Wed Dec 04, 2019 12:50 am
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan
Replies: 28
Views: 3283

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

Yes, very interesting and so many good points! We don't practice Spencer Plan, so idk much about it but for what it's worth, lol, I don't think any relationship, certainly any healthy and/ or dd relationship is,100/0....(I was surprised to see 80/20 to be the common ratio) but a common question for...
by Rand E
Tue Nov 26, 2019 10:48 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan
Replies: 28
Views: 3283

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

I've read about the Spencer Plan before but I wonder how well it would work in practice. While both partners in a relationship are going to make mistakes, I wonder about this tit-for-tat relationship style and how well it works long term. In most relationships there is one person who is more domina...
by Rand E
Tue Nov 26, 2019 11:15 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Discipline OR Divorce!!!
Replies: 22
Views: 867

Re: Discipline OR Divorce!!!

It does sound perhaps like you are experiencing problems with your DD arrangement due to recent deaths in the family. If you need your DD arrangement paused or toned down while you work that out, I would talk to your husband and ask him, as a sign of love and respect, to accommodate you. It sounds l...
by Rand E
Sun Nov 24, 2019 11:34 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan
Replies: 28
Views: 3283

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Punishments: The Spencer Spanking Plan

Is the Spencer Plan more used today then the DD on this forum? As far as I can tell, I'm the only participant on this forum practicing in any form of cooperative domestic discipline. And I have searched around and found little evidence of it on other web sites. It would seem that Spencer-style or C...
by Rand E
Sun Nov 24, 2019 10:51 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Hidden Public Punishments
Replies: 25
Views: 6958

Re: Hidden Public Punishments

Just curious why you feel the sense of urgency for discipline rather than waiting until the circumstances are right. My wife and I have signals that indicate "watch yourself" or "you're going to get it later" but there's no big rush to attempt discipline in public. The closest thing to that is when ...