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by SweetlySurrendered
Thu Jul 26, 2018 8:54 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?
Replies: 22
Views: 2056

Re: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

Man I am so jealous of those who have another DD friend in their regular life! I can’t imagine!
by SweetlySurrendered
Sat Jul 14, 2018 2:31 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Light bruising?
Replies: 21
Views: 2728

Re: Light bruising?

My husband almost always uses a lexan paddle which stings indescribably, but almost never leaves any bruising no matter how harsh or long the spanking is. He has a strap (like a leather belt) which I don’t mind nearly as much, but that almost always leaves at least a bit of bruising and I feel it fo...
by SweetlySurrendered
Sat Jul 14, 2018 2:23 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?
Replies: 22
Views: 2056

Does anyone in your regular life know you’re DD?

I am a very open person and I’ve always wanted to tell someone in my regular life, but I worry what would happen if more than who I wished found out. I have a very public job, that is a big part of it I think. Does anyone have experience sharing with others? Does it work? Did other people find out? ...
by SweetlySurrendered
Sat Jul 14, 2018 2:03 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: I am curious - and not yellow.
Replies: 33
Views: 1365

Re: I am curious - and not yellow.

This is a great community of people who are very supportive! If you’re exploring and have questions, you’ve definitely come to the right place :)
by SweetlySurrendered
Fri Jul 13, 2018 7:38 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: I am curious - and not yellow.
Replies: 33
Views: 1365

Re: I am curious - and not yellow.

Hi Rand and welcome! I think DD looks different for every couple, there may be some universal things that just work/don’t work, but a one-size-fits-all concept may not be the best way to approach this. I’ve not read any of your posts to be honest, but I think the big difference is that DD couples ge...
by SweetlySurrendered
Mon Jul 02, 2018 3:26 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bite Block, etc?
Replies: 10
Views: 1161

Re: Bite Block, etc?

Gordon you are a HoH, yes? I didn’t know you could make lexan paddles, that sounds horrible. I can not believe how severely they sting, it literally takes my breath away. Your poor sub! And I’m glad you found my blog- I’m always thankful for the HoH perspective, so if you ever read anything that giv...
by SweetlySurrendered
Sun Jul 01, 2018 10:12 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bite Block, etc?
Replies: 10
Views: 1161

Re: Bite Block, etc?

Thanks all. He let me use a mouth guard last night and that seemed to work fine, so thanks for that suggestion. Last night was the third night in a row with the lexan paddle :( I’ve not even done anything wrong, he just says he thinks it will help me in the long run. But I’ll take it (of course I wi...
by SweetlySurrendered
Fri Jun 29, 2018 4:12 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bite Block, etc?
Replies: 10
Views: 1161

Bite Block, etc?

Ugh this is so embarrassing to ask about, but does anyone have any information about a bite block or something to protect from clamping your mouth shut during a spanking? Or maybe gags actually do that as well? I know I shouldn’t grind my teeth together but when he uses the lexan paddle I just can’t...
by SweetlySurrendered
Tue Jun 26, 2018 9:16 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hello (again?)
Replies: 14
Views: 625

Re: Hello (again?)

Cass, thank you for the kind words about my blog! Good luck with the Love & Respect book for your parents, I hope they hear a third party and break the cycle. Interesting perspective on the cycle involving a sort of power exchange, thank you for that. I so agree that we can absolutely have it all if...
by SweetlySurrendered
Tue Jun 26, 2018 9:10 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hello (again?)
Replies: 14
Views: 625

Re: Hello (again?)

Nswife, that is good to know, thank you! I am hoping they end up being close, that was part of why we did it. Thank you for the perspective, I’m trying to keep that in mind despite the craziness. And every time I can’t grab something in another room without both of them toddling after me I really do...